I have a situation Destee family and I need help with this one A young lady is in a relationship with a man who blames her for their issues. He was married when they met and she was unaware. He lied to her about who he was and what he did. She is heart broken because she loves him. Here is where the story gets crazy She was dating him but was dealing with other guys because he constantly broke up with her While she was pregnant he busted her ear drum and bruised her rib cage. She has been dealing with his lies and games for about 4yrs She herself too is becoming like him and now he has "changed" He puts her down but tells her he loves her The moment they fight she is a hoe, whore and he brings up her past She asked me what she can do to fix her relationship with this man and I am baffled. I am brutally honest but do not want to hurt this girl. What can I tell her?