Discussion in 'Black Men - Fathers - Brothers - Sons' started by Omowale Jabali, May 18, 2006.
Proverbs 31 sound pretty good to me
You know it's hard out here for a ......
I define a quality woman as a woman who knows herself. Some of these females do not know what their first name is...
She satisfies my emotional needs by being a conduit of emotional support and understanding.
Then we will agree to disagree. I have discovered long ago, all that glitters aint gold. There is a lot of fools gold out there.
A good one is still hard to find
I agree. This is not as easy as said.
A quality woman for me, brother O, is one who is comunally, culturally, and consciously connected, and in tune with herself... She wants to be my friend, as well as, my lover...
She doesn't demand that I entertain her, or make her happy, as she KNOWS only she can best do that for herself... She wants me to be her companiion and friend first, and not just a hard **** whenever she needs a hard ****... She caters to my social, emotional, and intellectual needs, and demands that I do same for her... She is accepting of me as I am, and perfectly willing to accept the package she got when she met me. A quality woman to me, brother O, is one who wants to know me, and is as interested in me as I am in her, and does not feign as if my life is unimportant to her...
Quality, I guess, comes down to compatibility... That which I ask of my woman is what I ask of myself in return... Don't hurt if sister cooks good vegetarian food neither...(smile!) Way to my heart, way to my heart...a sister who can, and loves to feed a brother a great meal(smile!) Ready to Jelly Roll after that...(smile!)
BTWay, ladies, NATURAL HAIR, please...
fer me she must have brains.
i cannot do anyone dumb, i just can't do it.
then she must have heart and guts. can't be scurred.
i tend to run right over weak sisters.
she gotta have a real, live sex drive.
i ain't doing all tha work.
athletic helps. spiritual is good.
So, for YOU, Brother James, a "quality Black woman" must not be dumb or weak and must have a sex drive that matches your own.
....Just wanted to check my understanding of YOUR "definition of a quality Black woman."
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