Ok, I'll chime in here one mo' 'gain.
No one will learn from their behavior towards or treatment of someone else if the person being treated inappropriately doesn't say something about it to the person who's doing the inappropriate treatment. In other words, he won't learn anything unless she says something to him about it. And, who's to say that he'll change after she's spoken with him about his behavior?
Jackeys, to prevent him from using the "you should have said something" excuse to make you feel bad and give him another chance, sit down with him and express how your feelings about the way he's treated you. That way, you've given him all the chances he needs to make amends.
With the 15 minutes issue, Cursed Heart could be right on that one. He had to make sure plans with someone else was straight before he could meet with you. Maybe it's not clear in his mind or between the both of you whether you're dating exclusively or not. You may want to ask about that as well. Or, he could be setting up a surprise for you in the future and had to meet someone at that time. Who knows?
Peace
No one will learn from their behavior towards or treatment of someone else if the person being treated inappropriately doesn't say something about it to the person who's doing the inappropriate treatment. In other words, he won't learn anything unless she says something to him about it. And, who's to say that he'll change after she's spoken with him about his behavior?
Jackeys, to prevent him from using the "you should have said something" excuse to make you feel bad and give him another chance, sit down with him and express how your feelings about the way he's treated you. That way, you've given him all the chances he needs to make amends.
With the 15 minutes issue, Cursed Heart could be right on that one. He had to make sure plans with someone else was straight before he could meet with you. Maybe it's not clear in his mind or between the both of you whether you're dating exclusively or not. You may want to ask about that as well. Or, he could be setting up a surprise for you in the future and had to meet someone at that time. Who knows?
Peace