Black Relationships : "A Man Will Be A Man"..... What????

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  1. Liberty

    Liberty going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Do you believe that "men will be men" philosophy, that men cannot be faithful,
    and a woman should be a ride or die chick for her man? Or, is that just some BS.?

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    if we actually had MEN we would not be in the situation that we are in.......

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    the problem is that most of us don't realize what a man actually is.

    a child does what ever they want, ruled by their desires and emotions.
    a man rules his desires and emotions.
     
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    I agree with James.
    A Man is a social invention while Male is biology
    To be a Man you must rise about your biology.
    A Man is made but Males are born
     
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    I believe men will be men, not men will be unfaithful. I just wonder, why ever was unfaithfulness associated with being a man?

    I believe in loyalty to ones significant other, even through hard times, but not stupidity where one or the other is continuously bringing about rough times for you both and expecting you not to weary of it.
     
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    Will someone please outline the obvious here. Who are we cheating with?





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    other men because women do not cheat.......:angel1:
     
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    Liberty going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Usually with women who have been lied to. Women who don't know that you are already married/in relationships, at least until after they are emotional involved. Then they are told more lies to diminish the substance of the marriage/relationship ýou are īn.
     
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    You really believe those are the only cases? There are plenty of women who cheat on their husbands, who cheat with men they know are married, and who specifically target men who are already married.

    Please do not fall for the false narrative that Women=Good, Men=Evil. Both sexes have good and evil in them, and neither sex has moral superiority over the other.

    Also, some of us need to stop conflating entertainment with reality.