Ladies: At what age do you think a man should have his own place to stay? If he is past the 35 mark, and he has spent most of his life living with someone and never truly had his own place to stay, or a stable job, would you date a man like that? If so, how long? If not, why? For the older generation here, if he is in his 50s still doesn't have a real job, and relying on a hobby (a book or writing music) to get published and make some money, yet he is living with someone else, doesn't have his own place. Where do you all draw the line? Is this where the ladies "step up" and pays yours and his bill by going out working, while he is sitting at home on the computer all day, or what? Would love to see what your responses are!