me and one of my friends was talking about different things and somehow we got on the subject of a one hitting the other. he ended up telling me that he wouldn't beat on his girlfriend, but hypothetically if she was to slap him in the face, then he will most likely hit her back. He went on to say that she can hit him anywhere else if she gets mad, but it's just something about him getting slapped in the face that he wouldn't tolerate. Then he was going on to say that women can be abusive too just like men because he watched his stepmother hit on his dad like that... so for the guys...how you feel about it? would you hit a woman back if she hit you? and ladies, would you stay with a man if he told you that he would hit a woman ONLY if you put your hands on him first?? Also why or why not? as far as my answer, I don't do violence anyways, so part of me has nothing to worry about but you never know... so spill it!