Is a good man hard to find? Of course they are! Men today is so caught up in trying to better their ego or trying to earn the title of a “thug”, “player”, or “pimp” that they diminish the whole “Good man” theory. You could once find a good at every corner you turn. Now on every corner you turn you find a man selling drugs, if that is the modern “Good man” of today. I personally wouldn’t want him. Most of the average females of today have the perception that a good man is tall, have a nice smooth and sensual skin complexion, masculine where you would get lost in his arms, athletic, pretty eyes, has everything covered to give you the sexual healing that you need, and a smile that would make you wet your draws in a matter of seconds. The only thing about the about the average female’s perception of a good man is that it is but a mere fantasy. You may find a man out there that fits your whole description, but what are the chances that he is a good man? He could look good like a tall glass of Lipton Ice Tea with a lemon twist ion the side of the rim on a hot summer day, but his personality can be as bad as Kool-Aid with no sugar or soda with no fizz. Why would you want to be with someone based upon how they look? Looks aren’t everything. Would you rather be with a good looking man with no job and beats your *** every night? Or would you rather be with an ugly man who has a job and treats you like the queen that you are? THINK ABOUT IT.