I apologize in advance for the gargantuan sized OP.To make it easier to navigate through I will start off with Part 1 which is a short YT video I found related to the topic at which I discuss at length.If you dont feel like reading what I wrote just observe the video and you will have a shorter summary of my point of view.No doubt I expect much backlash from this even here amongst other blacks but I feel this is something that needs to be addressed. Part 1: ( I can somewhat related sadly to what the person who made this video is trying to imbue ) Part 2: I will be the first to admit as a young black male that Black men are actually a lot more mind warped than black women for the simple fact that they murder each other and go to prison and at a much higher rate than BW in the U.S..But one has to ask one's self how about whats behind whats behind this if you catch my drift? Who is raising these man children,who is laying down and screwing bastard sons of ratchet black women that themselves were bastard daughters.Why aren't college educated,upper middle class,professional and church going black women speaking out and trying to do something to inspire their lesser class black sistas in an effort to curb this nonsense? You know a lot of people would criticize me for openly saying this but I will openly admit this to prove that Im not trying to stand on some Holy Pedastle above anyone with my opinions here.My grandmother on my mom's side of the family was sexually loose in her prime;I know this because she had 5 different children(including my mother)by 5 different baby daddies.Infact two of my uncles are mixed,one with Arab the other with Puerto Rican,this has always been questioned and debated in my family but there strong indicators recently of both of their ethnic type.In all reality my grandmother God rest her soul was so promiscuous back in the day she probably slept with 5 or 6 times more men then she actually got pregnant by and never married(I forget what the sex partner/fertility ratio is for BW). Now most black people male and female(including many in here Im sure) would get so offended at me for speaking the truth about my own loved ones to the point of being literally willing and ready to fight me over it,and I know Im not telling SOME of you anything you don't know.Its like when they killed Malcolm X for telling the truth about Elijah Mohammed impregnating several teenage girls.I also realize that this "hush hush" but "glorify your shame" mentality that generations of black people in general have is also at the root of the "no snitch" policy which plagues many black neighborhoods. I recall a retired black Chicago cop interviewed by BET shortly after the highly publicized Hadiya Pendleton slaying last year caused a stir when he said that it has long since been a myth that the majority of black citizens don't cooperate with police during investigations primarily out of fear of retaliations from gangs and drug kingpins;the black criminal element does not have that much power,nerve or counter intel to harm everyone who rats them out.And he speculated that if the so called black community would be more cooperative with Law Enforcement,crime would decrease by a noticeable percentage. He revealed something that made me realize by and large what is fundamentally wrong with black society.The REAL reason blacks don't snitch,including those who go to church every Sunday,is because the youth committing these heinous crimes are their children and their sisters, girlfriends and neighbors children.To tell on the perpetrator would be to condemn their very own offspring.Thats why amongst other violent crimes,67% of homicides in Chicago(just to name one city) go unsolved and unprosecuted. Ofcourse black women are NOT all to blame it does take two to tango but as they are the bearers of offspring and the decision makers when it comes to mating I relate their defensive claims of it not being all their fault to that of post WW2 Germans who declared that not all of them were like Hitler and his Nazi's.Hitler started off as just a loud mouthed smack talking racetard just like any drunken fool in a bar.What gave him power?The People,because he openly spoke the evil hearted venom against Jews and Eastern Europeans that they were all quietly thinking.He was democratically placed into a position of power as vice chancellor and then upgraded to chancellor in 1933 when the German president died of natural causes. People say he MADE the military swear an oath of allegiance to him as their Fuerher but we all know you cant MAKE men with guns do anything if they don't want to.Truth is they already had hatred in their hearts, but most people don't have the audacity to go in on something alone so they need a like minded individual or group to make them feel comfortable about doing and speaking the dirt they already had been considering anyway. "Leaders do not start movements,they just observe which direction the crowd is moving and then cut to the front of the line".......for the life of me I cannot recall who said that but its so very accurate. Thus as black women are by and large the leaders of most black households and put black men through hell of high water in the court system(child custody,divorce,domestic violence etc.) to the point of discouraging any fatherly involvement in the lives of black children then it is indeed inaccurate to pontificate that most black women(not all) are leading themselves and generations of blacks to slaughter just as it was German sentiment that inspired Hitler,not Hitler's sentiment that inspired Germany? Popular opinion just like bad trends sell themselves and sadly that's what we are seeing with BAW(Black American Women) and by and large on a greater scale the black community. Part 3: I have long since come to the realization that the attention span of blacks isnt the problem,their not give a **** attitude is the problem.Most just from life time experience know what the problems are and thus what the alternative solutions are,which is why when most black people that come from lower class backgrounds become the few that find success they abandon ship and dont look back to pull anyone ashore with them. "The best thing you can do for poor and ghetto people is not be one of em' " - Steve Harvey "Still Trippin" Even Tupac spoke truth but he still acted like a thug and thats why he wound up dead. Yet like many young black men who have fallen victim to bad choices who was behind Tupac?A crack head single mother that was getting ran through like a train tunnel back in the 70's when she got preggo with Pac.She choosingly(like most but NOT ALL black women) put herself and her children in a predicament that was already dire. As I said I dont speak from a hypocritical standpoint,my own mother had an abortion in her teens,although God blessed her with a Good husband ,my father,for 30 years after that,yet she gives him hell being argumentative every day,but he puts up with her,most men wouldnt,they were certainly meant for one another,my father is one of kind to put up with my mom but I love them both.I also love my late grandmother who I spoke uabout earlier. As you can see I am unique as I do not misinterpret love for keeping the truth quiet.If its the truth I will not only speak it on a matter of a general nature but even on a personal level.Most of the older women in my family and neighborhood have never married,have husbands who cheat or have children by other women and most of the younger ones are ratchet and or single mothers.This is an epedemic that like you said has been going on since the 70's. Part 4: I am a rare breed of young black man,somehow I escaped becoming a victim of the stereotypical profile that many young black males have fallen victim too and I have the history to show it.Im 29,next July will be my 30th birthday.In 30 years I have only had sex with two women that I was romantically involved with,I have no illegitimate children,never smoked a "blunt"or any other type drug in my life,never been arrested,I dont drink,I dont holla at every hoochie I see on the street,I dont get in meaningless fights and beefs with people over petty nonsense.I have a full time job with my own car and place,and am college and self educated. My biggest frustration with life is that I have done everything right and yet this "Black Queen" I keep hearing about is no where yet to be seen to join by my side.The frustration that I suffer with from that is what originally got me involved in the Black issues section of the internet including this forum and youtube where I learned about the likes of personalities such as *************** and David Carroll who recieve alot of flack about their approach to black issue related commentary. Now after a couple years of research and a lifetime of experience I finally realize why the odds of me finding that black women that is attractive,smart,not ratchet and wife material are slim to none. Self hating destruction of the black population,whether its race mixing,AIDS,prison,homicide,abortion,poverty,dependency etc. has been going on so long and spread so far and deep that it is no longer just a generational epidemic,it is sadly a cultural signature of African American society and very few have remained uninfected by it over the past 40 years. Thats a scary thought,we who are uninfected are the minority within the minority.