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  1. Clyde C Coger Jr

    Clyde C Coger Jr going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Member, 360, posted a Poll Thread titled: So Elijah Mohammed and George Clinton. Within the thread tally block(s) is the below disrespect to ancestor Elijah Mohammed.

    oElijah(he look JUS like E.T.)

    http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=61945

    Not only is this in violation of rule # 1, in terms of Respect for our black ancestors, it also violates the following principles: We Are About Loving, Encouraging, Embracing, Teaching and Building With Black People, and a possible violation of: No Hate Allowed.

    Here are other similar posts contrary to the above set of principles:

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...2&postcount=19

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...2&postcount=33

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...68&postcount=5

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...22&postcount=3

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...5&postcount=11

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...8&postcount=13

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...69&postcount=3

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...7&postcount=12

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...5&postcount=10

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...5&postcount=12

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...64&postcount=4

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...13&postcount=7

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...3&postcount=10

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...10&postcount=2

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...67&postcount=2

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...6&postcount=12

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...&postcount=157

    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.ph...7&postcount=42



    Member 360 is very a very intelligent person, however, the continued display of bringing controversy, picking at issues, and disrupting threads is menacing to say the least. In my view, rightly or wrongly, such continued activity warrants a Warning that many of us here are attempting to build with love and Unity.


     
  2. blkbutterfly41

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    Hmmmmmm, If the brothers comments bother you so much why not just ignore his post or scroll past his words ?? :10500:

    Just my 2 cents for whats it's worth........................

    Unbelievable to me, how you make an issue where there is none because he don't promote peace by YOUR definition. Why didn't you report sister Chevon when she was cussing folks out and was ranting in her thread ??

    Why does he need the violation and she don't ?? ( I have nothing against neither, I'm just saying ) What's the difference ?? You love and respect sister Chevon and you don't 360 ?? When you double team one person is that making peace ?? Jumping on the side of the person you like not the stance itself , is that making peace and loving your brothers and sisters ??

    360 can't make a menace unless you own his words. He can't disrupt unless you allow him too. To build peace sometimes means to show restraint and self discipline. And to give love to those that perhaps never felt it.

    I laugh at his thread myself , But for those die hard fans that idolize Tiger Woods, if they felt that thread was insulting would the thread creator get an violation ??

    Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I don't know to close that brothers mouth because you don't like what he is saying. You might consider after while somebody will come along and use that same tactic to close yours soon enough. ( or somebody that you love deeply )


    I dunno, Bringing focus and negative attention to that brother certainly is not brotherly. And I expect more from my elders.

    No biggy, I just had to say my piece/peace

    Hell, I don't care who likes what I say, but I love my people all the same. Action screams louder then mere words. Wrong is wrong , Even if I love those that are doing it !!

    Have a good night , My brother.

    btw: Just the time that you had to go back and get all those threads............

    Whew !!! lmao :em2300: Wuv ya !! But dayuuuuuuuuum !!

     
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    Sister, for some reason, I knew your thread was in response to this thread that brother Clyde has created. I hope this doesn't bother you but really, you haven't been here long enough to observe things and what you are attempting at doing is not bringing about peace, as you have so expressed, is what you desire to do.

    If I recall correctly, you not long ago had a run in not only with members but also with a moderator (who represents Destee) for which you were not very respectful towards her and she never not once tried to silence you, she never not once even told you who she was. You were free to express yourself and no one tried to take that from you. In the end, direct apologies were made to you even though no one had done anything to you, yet, for some reason you felt as though you had been wronged. It was clear who had started things... However, you never directly apologized to anyone and now you come off as someone who is concerned with fairness?

    Just my two cents for what it is worth...:10500:


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  4. Clyde C Coger Jr

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    And I love you too blk butterfly41, for real!...Rather than qualitatively respond to some clear issues you have with me, I will trust that Administration will give my first complaint violation due process and a full and fair read...Peace In my sister friend.


     
  5. blkbutterfly41

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    I have no issues with YOU, per say. But I just don't like the things people do under the disguise of sister and brother.

    Don't worry, I still waiting for the admistrators to comment in my thread as the circus performs. **wink**

    All is good. Peace




     
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    With all due respect. Please don't call me sister. BBF will due. As I hold dear those terms when I speak it , type it and hear it. **smile** And Please know I am not angry or hold no malice towards anybody.

    I'm not making any attempt to bring about peace. Looks like threes enough people faking that avenue. I'm trying to understand the motives of folks that scream peace but yet simply dictate control. And I don't have to hang around long to see the results. Even if it started before I came here. Because I don't know anybody yet, meaning that I have an unbiased opinion. That gives me the advantage. So I think.

    As for the dispute

    Your perception belongs to you and your friends. But fair enough and I knew who the moderator was and I don't hold my tongue because they are an moderator. Respect is due all regardless of any titles. I made a mistake about the genders and was the first to apologize for it. If I tell you it was an honest mistake and you want to argue why you THINK it wasn't . That's not on me but on you.

    If you attack me, you will be attacked back. And just for the record, if its more then one person doing the attacking . Yes, It is indeed an attack. Childlike but no less an attack. You guys do that all the time.

    Yet that same moderator never interfered. She apologized yet keep it moving. So her actions said, It's allowed. So I will handle me. I'm a big girl.

    And I actually directly apologized TWICE. You guys was so busy trying to prove an obsolete point that ,You never saw it.

    Don't believe me take a look. :10500:

    If it bothered you that much , you should have addressed it at that moment. Once it done, It was done FOR ME. Yet, truetothecause obviously held it and every time I type anything , even if its not directed at her. She took it as an attack. How childish is that ?? lol Nor am I responsible or accountable how somebody perceives me so I don't concern myself about it.

    I do not go along to get along, period. I allow people to be themselves as I am myself. Everybody will not love everybody else. To me thats unrealistic. If I don't like somebody , I simply scroll past their post. I do not nic pik.

    And I am concerned about fairness. And not for me. I'm an tough chick, words from strangers I truly don't hold. I'm mentally trained that way, 4 real.


    But for those that truly want to share, gain, and have peaceable encounters with our people . I proudly take that stand. I like Destee and on the surface I think its a great site. Has a large selection of interest. But as for the few people............................ Well, it is what it is.

    You can't claimed your blessed , yet cuss a member out in a thread. lol

    Come on !! lol

    But Anyway , Be You.

    Your 2 cents is worthy But I addressed my thread to the authorities who own the site. So i'll await for their response.

    Besides looks like you guys proved my point for me quite well, in the thread I created asking them.

    You have a good night. Peace

     
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    smh...:rain:



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  8. Clyde C Coger Jr

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    blkbutterfly41,

    Sorry, its obvious, all cannot be good my sister, you have spelled out the concerns that trouble you, quite clearly. And in spite of this undeniable salient fact, I'm still hoping you will be a woman of your word, as promised, and spend the necessary time in decision to support the site and person you love, with Premium Membership...Peace In my sister friend, for real!

     
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    Clyde, You made my night !!! lmao Mayne, I hope they are paying ya !! ( J/k)

    You endorse this site like its yours. But that's a good thing. Your heart is here and that's not faked.

    And YES it is all good, cause I really hold very little Clyde. Truly !! This is pleasurable for me. You have to have fun . I really have an easy spirit. I don't take too much on this cp, seriously. If I start gripping about things on line, my ole man would throw the computer out the window. lmao

    I have two kids in college , work hard every single day !! This is how I kick off my shoes and relax. I have stressors mayne. I aint hardly added anything to it. If it gets too heated, I shut the :geek: off !!

    If everything in life was that easy, i'll be alright !!!

    i'll share a secret with you. We have to love each other that keeps us from crossing the line. The person I don't get along with Now, May very well be my ( your ) best brother or sister later. Keep that door open. You may be surprised what cha get !!! **wink**

    God said, to love each other . He never said it will be easy. And perfection don't live in me either.

    I just don't think like the average person and I'm comfortable with that. It will take time for others to be.

    but yes, I love the site. And will definitely support it !!!

    Now, I hope you know . Your inviting my behind back over and over and over again !! blahhhhhhhhh lol

    lol Get some rest Clyde and don't worry . Tomorrow is another day and already I just know it will be beautiful !! These are just little kinks that have to be worked out to achieve REAL brotherhood and sisterhood !!

     
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    Brother Clyde, your concerns has been noted and is being reviewed. I will address it soon.

    Thank you for your patience!

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