2 settle the score

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  1. Therious

    Therious Banned MEMBER

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    Do you ever find your self going out of your way to get even , to settle something you should have nipped in the bud right a way. I mean you dont react at the time cuz you dont want to go over board but then your annoyed hours later so you gotta get even. So your waiting for the next mistake and then its on?:flamet:
     
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    I've felt that way , but once it's by me i let go yet bitter
    taste is left in my mouth ......but i push pass trying to get even

    man i feel you still coz sometime i wanna just explode on 'em
     
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    I used to feel this way sometimes when I was younger. As I've gotten older I've changed and even if I am tempted I control the temptation and I don't go "out of my way" for no one.

    Especially not out of anger.
     
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    There is no need for me to get even.

    I only get ahead.

    Every situation in this life can be used as a learning lesson to preventive further disappointment, when I got older, I got rid of the get even mentality. The idealogy of me settleing the score, unforuntately, trinkled into my relationships with women, and I found that I was being too *** for Tat.

    Once I removed this ideal from my thought process, I was able to enjoy my woman and life even more.

    Just a thought.
     
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