Black Relationships : #1 Reason Men Pull Away From Relationships

NOW , MANHOOD.....REAL MANHOOD.....SHOULD BE DEFINED , REDEFINED , DESCRIBED , TAUGHT , INSTILLED , PROMOTED AND VALIDATED , BY MEN.......NOT BY WOMEN.....AND MEN SHOULDNT BE DEFINING OR VALIDATING WOMANHOOD.....ITS BAD ENOUGH THAT TOO MANY MALES ARE ADOPTING WOMANHOOD OR FEMALE BEHAVIORS...

UNDERSTAND THIS....IM NOT DEMEANING WOMANHOOD....IM JUST NOT GONNA GO ALONG WITH DEMEANING MANHOOD AT THE EXPENSE OF THE UPLIFTMENT OF WOMANHOOD..... (Oprah did this very swiftly for 7 years, which reduced the 2-parent black households from 39% to 8% in those 7 years, yet theres no record of Oprah doing a show on fixing the problems in the black home...do you think those who signed her checks would have allowed her to?).....

SO MANY WOMEN PLACE THEIR COLORFUL OPINIONS & SARCASTIC CONCLUSIONS FAR ABOVE THE ROOT OF THE PROBLEM IN QUESTION.....THEY COMMENT ALL DAY LONG ABOUT MEN AND THEIR SHORTCOMINGS , WHILE IGNORING THAT THE SYSTEM IS A WELL PLANNED , WELL STRUCTURED SYSTEM THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE BLACK MEN BEING NATURAL REAL MEN , ESPECIALLY WITHOUT ANY ACQUIESCING......TOTALLY IGNORING THE MEN THEY WERE BEFORE THE SLAVE TRADE IN AMERIKKKA.....

SO ....MALES BEING FEMININE , OR EVEN GAY IS NOW POPULAR , KOOL , FASHIONABLE , HIP , AND IN MY OPINION , SUBLIMINALLY MANDATED , DISREGARDING THAT CHILDREN SUFFER BIGTIME FROM THIS.......AND YES , THIS IS BY DESIGN...(Neely Fuller Jr. predicted this in the 70's, the plan to effeminize Black Men)

YOUR QUESTION AT THE END , IS RECKLESSLY MISLEADING....BUT ILL ANSWER...

IM NOT SAYING MEN ARE WEAK...OR EVEN TOO WEAK FOR ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD.....

WHAT I AM SAYING...IS THIS SYSTEM WE ARE IN .... IS SO CORRUPT , SO DECEPTIVE , AND SO BRAINWASHING...THAT IT DOES NOT ALLOW REAL MANHOOD BEYOND A WHITE STANDARD , WHICH ULTIMATELY IS A STOLEN STANDARD THAT THEY THEMSELVES WHITEWASHED.....WHILE COUNTLESS BLACK WOMEN WILL PROMOTE & PROTECT THIS STANDARD OUT OF HABIT , OR EVEN IGNORANCE ALONE.....

THATS A PACIFYING MALFUNCTION FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP TRAPPED IN A SYSTEM THAT HAS NEVER REDEEMED THE PEOPLE IT OPPRESSED....THAT IS DISALLOWING NATURE TO RUN ITS COURSE.....IF YOU NEED PROOF OF THIS , I RECOMMEND THESE TWO BOOKS :

BRAINWASHED -- BY TOM BURRELL

POST-TRAUMATIC SLAVE SYNDROME -- BY DR Joy DeGruy Leary

AS SAID BY MIN DAVID MUHAMAD --> " IF A MAN IS NOT GONNA TREAT YOU RIGHT , HE DEFINITELY WONT TEACH YOU RIGHT...

SO...BECAUSE OF THESE OBVIOUS POISONS , AND THE VALUES SO MANY OF US PLACE IN THESE POISONS , ITS HARDER TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP WITHIN A SYSTEM THAT DIVIDED US FROM DAY ONE , ONLY TO TRICK US INTO ADOPTING ITS STANDARDS , WHICH WILL ONLY WORK IF WE BE WHO THE SYSTEM REQUIRES US TO BE.....(and you can rest assured , that the system is unnatural)...

SO...IF ONE , OR EVEN BOTH IN THE RELATIONSHIP ARE EXERCISING RULES SET BY THE SYSTEM...OR....POPULAR OPINION....OR....WHAT TELEVISION TEACHES THEM....WITHOUT FIRST CONSIDERING THE MALFUNCTIONS ALREADY IN PLACE , THEN GUESS WHAT ? ----> CHANGES....WHICH LEAD MEN TO OUTRAGEOUS LIMITS OF FRUSTRATION.....

SO , SINCE SO MANY MEN HAVE GIVEN UP AND FOLLOWED A WOMANS LEAD TO PACIFY THEIR FRUSTRATIONS , IT BECOMES HARDER FOR MEN TO BE REAL MEN , BEYOND THE AMERIKKKAN...OR....FEMALE STANDARDS...

WHY ?? ---> BECAUSE MOST REAL MEN ARE AGAINST ENTERTAINING CHANGES...
i've never found it difficult to be a man......
 
i've never found it difficult to be a man......


GREETINGS JAMESFRMPHILLY....GTSY AGAIN...

IM IN THAT BOAT TOO.....IT WASNT DIFFICULT FOR ME EITHER...
 
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There is also a similar thread for women. Also, I appreciate your answer. Thanks for posting.

Yes, you write very well. Humans are bi-pedal beings, we have no "hind" legs. It's a biological truth.

Peace!
 

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