Black Relationships : #1 Reason Men Pull Away From Relationships

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    Some men like their women thick. If a man stops loving his woman cause she gain weight, his love wasn’t strong enough to keep them together anyway.
    Had it not been weight, it would have been something else.
     
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    Thinking being confrontational is a form of strength and independence.
     
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    Some men like their women thick. If a man stops loving his woman cause she gain weight, his love wasn’t strong enough to keep them together anyway. If I liked thick women, you were thick when we started
    Had it not been weight, it would have been something else. No, maybe you quit caring. Guys tend to want what they started with



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    We men are visual creatures but if we stop loving a woman because she puts on pounds then we are being the shallow ones.
     
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    It is what it is. That's part of being visual isn't it?




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    what do you mean it is what it is?
     
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    The heart wants what it wants



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    oh okay
     
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    All I know is when one or the other party in a possible new relationship comes out the gate lying it will never last once the truth surfaces. Well unless one or both parties look at it as a very short term fling, booty call arrangement or a one night stand. When one put's their best foot forward for the first date it is expected to maintain some reasonable semblance of the initial image within reason. When both parties are seriously committed to each other, changes in physical appearances due to health that's not in control of the affected party should in no way diminish the love between the two. Otherwise if efforts are not attempted to maintain a healthy lifestyle including weight control and personal appearance and more so personal hygiene then counseling is needed before the relationship is in danger of failing and fail it will.
     
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