Black Relationships : #1 Reason Men Pull Away From Relationships

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What is the biggest mistake women make that kills a man's attraction?
 

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they get fat......
Even though men get fat too? Is there a double standard?

I have heard of this. But, I don't recall ever hearing of a woman leaving her man because he got fat. Hmmm....

And, I know a couple where the man cooks all this fattening food, but doesn't want his wife to eat it. I think he is being unfair. He is BBQing everthing in sight, but wants her to just eat salad...LOL

He feels like she should look like she did when he met her 25 years and one child ago.

Do you think that's fair?
 

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Even though men get fat too? Is there a double standard?

I have heard of this. But, I don't recall ever hearing of a woman leaving her man because he got fat. Hmmm....

And, I know a couple where the man cooks all this fattening food, but doesn't want his wife to eat it. I think he is being unfair. He is BBQing everthing in sight, but wants her to just eat salad...LOL

He feels like she should look like she did when he met her 25 years and one child ago.

Do you think that's fair?
you ask for reasons. i give you one and you argue with me. :11300:
 

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you ask for reasons. i give you one and you argue with me. :11300:

Fair enough... I was just trying to understand. Because, generally women do gain weight, especially after giving birth.
But, you are right. I have heard this complaint many times.
 

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they attract you with the body and then as soon as you commit they lose the body.
now they got nothing for you. women best realize what's up.
 

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they attract you with the body and then as soon as you commit they lose the body.
now they got nothing for you. women best realize what's up.
I get it, I think. Correct me if I am wrong.

1. A woman should try to keep herself up.
2. She should have more to offer than T&A.
 

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A woman should keep herself up.
all people should work out in some manner. brake a sweat. walk, ride a bike. do something, anything.
if you spend your week without any regular, strenuous activity you are killing yourself.
too many sisters spend their time and money on hair and nails while doing nothing for their figure.
the country is full of fat sisters with nice hair and nails. fat women are not sexy or attractive. sorry.
if you looked good when you got him you better maintain that to keep him.
if you ever go to a strip club you will not find any fat sisters in there. not a one.

few sisters even know what it takes to please their man.

PS : fruit, nuts, grains and vegetables.....plenty of water
 

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all people should work out in some manner. brake a sweat. walk, ride a bike. do something, anything.
if you spend your week without any regular, strenuous activity you are killing yourself.
too many sisters spend their time and money on hair and nails while doing nothing for their figure.
the country is full of fat sisters with nice hair and nails. fat women are not sexy or attractive. sorry.
if you looked good when you got him you better maintain that to keep him.
if you ever go to a strip club you will not find any fat sisters in there. not a one.

few sisters even know what it takes to please their man.

PS : fruit, nuts, grains and vegetables.....plenty of water
That is true. I'll agree with that. But, it's not just sisters. Its also brothers, white men and women are also guilty of that.

That's what I eat, but you know I also eat fish twice a week.

I guess you caught me off guard. I was expecting you to name some other type of behavior. Well, not eating healthy and neglecting your health is a behavior too, now that I think about it. Thanks for posting, James.
 

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