Hana,
Again, you have done well, you are learning the site and have the attention of us here at Destee.com. But, it is my belief that for you to get overly invovled with back and forth dialogue will only confuse you about the make up of people at Destee.com.
We are a loving family here that is also with its problems, but for the most part, we are serious about Black People where ever they are located. Understand, your thread is in an Open Forum, which means it is open for debate and different opinions.
The same about the Chat Room, it is open to anyone and is non-restrictive to expressed view points. So, please give me some sign that you understand exactly what it is I am saying and will not allow some, as Zulile has said, and she is a forum moderator, to distract the purpose of you coming to us for the help that some of us can provide.
Clyde.........your friend