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    Black People : "Torn"

    I am 40 years old/no kids/ and lived in 1 entire city my whole life As far as I can remember I have always wanted to move out west. Well last year, I made my decision. I listed my house this year in Jan.?(fingers crossed it sells). Call it an early midlife crisis decision, but I want to do it. I...
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    Black Relationships : Help!!!!-Need Advice

    That very sweet AB siblings......:) but i hardly think its that..... For instance he reached out to me last week, because he was having problems with his girlfriend. He asked if we could meet up on two seperate occasions, but he nevered followed thru with meeting up. I told him that I would meet...
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    Black Relationships : Help!!!!-Need Advice

    First, Please do not judge me and Second thanks in advance for the guidance and answers to my dilemma I am 40 years old SBF with no kids who met a SBM with no kids at my part time job but at the time had a Caucasian girlfriend, whom he was living with. Well over the year that we worked together...
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    OK Ladies.....I need you to rally around me here.......I'm feel myself slippin and falling back into old habits and having flashbacks.......if you have read the beginning of this thread....then you know the situation....Still can't believe this situation happened....It' been almost a month...and...
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    But im am backing up off of him....I "REFUSE" to text him.........
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    He has no kids.......=no baggage.....
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    We are both 40years old..............Cmon now.
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    Im beginning to think that this was a way out for him......because the more I think about what happened...it is truly ridiculous to let something as simple as text message dissolve a friendship.....All I can say..his loss.....Not gonna reach out via text either...I mean as much as I want to...it...
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    thats exactly why i didnt text over the Thanksgiving Holiday.......How do I phrase the apology without sounding needy?
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    As I sit and ponder what happened....Im still perplexed at this whole situation....I know most of you say..."MOVE ON"...or "FORGET 'EM"....I did not text this man a Thanksgiving greeting...even thought I wrestled with the thought over the whole holiday.....Im am hoping maybe he will reach out...
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    Can i get more feedback from other members beside "Rich"?
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    When and if he decides to come crawling out of his little hole and decides to reach back out to me.....How would some of you react?.. A. Do you greet him and exchange plesantries like nothing never happened between you too....B. Do you give the cold shoulder and dont respond at all?(After all...
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    yeah...that also ran across my mind as well......but just to cut off all contact makes no sense.
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    it really was a mistake..no harm intended on my part.....
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    Black Relationships : WHY oH WHY!!!!!!!!

    Exactly my point.....we are just friends..... and I tried to reassure him that scenario wasn't happening here....but he i think he just jumped to conclusions..Whatever happened to him regarding "the saving of text messages" must have really scarred him....This just perplexes me and the whole...
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