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    Black Relationships : Please help, ADVICE?!

    As a young woman who is also in her twenties, I advise you to leave him alone. No matter how you may feel about him, I believe that it would be best for the both of you, especially you. You could save yourself from alot of heartache and trouble. I, too, have been in a similar situation...
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    Black Women : How to raise self-esteem ????

    I've been there--the sad thing is the marriage didn't even last a year. He wasn't physically abusive, but he was abusive in every other way possible, and he treated me like crap. I had a daughter right after we married, but he swore up and down that she isn't his. When I'd ask him questions...
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    I like to know this ???

    Right on RIVER!!! 'Ol boy was beginning to sicken me with all of his nonsense. :puke: :puke: I think that before anyone can really speak on this issue, they must first analyze themselves and define who they truly are. I believe it is imperative for one to know if he is strong, real...
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    I like to know this ???

    There is a significant difference between strong men and real men. Strong men are those who use force to conquer and stay in control. These are usually those people who live their life based on what others say and think about them. In all actuality, these "strong" men are usually weak...
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    Black Relationships : Sacrifices for relationships

    I think I'm in the same boat as Toylin. I'd given up so much to the point where I'd lost my self. Somewhere along the road I realized that a relationship isn't worth being in if you forget about the person you truly are. That's one of the reasons why we fight alot. I'm trying to gain back my...
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    Black Women : Post Partum Depression/Child Abandoment

    On one hand, I agree with you Toylin. I too had gotten depressed. It is especially hard on those who have no strong support system. But, on the other hand, I don't think that it is depression that causes them to abandon their children. I think that their role and respsonsibilities don't...
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    Black Relationships : What do you expect of a Man???

    I'm not saying that being religious would cause any man to treat other kids as his own, nor am I saying that him treating me with respect is less important. I'm just saying that at that time, I didn't really care if he was religious or not. If a man is TRULY committed to God and not just...
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    Black Women : All My Friends Are Men

    I used to be a tomboy, and to this day I am still. I think that other females feel threatend by me. Not bragging or anything, but I am smart, look decent, and I love sports. Not only that, I have an older brother, and I used to hang out with him and his friends. So, I'm used to having males...
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    Black Relationships : What do you expect of a Man???

    I'm in my early 20s, married with a kid. To be honest my marriage is on the rocks. At first, I wanted an intelligent man with a job who was honest, respectful and cared about me. Now, if I had the opportunity, I would like a man who trusts and believes in God and who is willing to treat my...
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    Black Relationships : Do You Have A Price?

    Yeah, but the bible says that you have the right to walk away if he cheats--he broke those vows. It is unhealthy to live with an adulterous man. Of course material things can never replace feelings and how deeply one is hurt, but I'd take the ring, sell it, and then put that money in my...
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