Yes, the open forums are like a jungle, be prepared to enter...All in all though, Destee.com is one of the best Black Sites possible on the Internet. And yes, I'm sure most are the same, I just decided to make this one home because of what it offers, the integrity of the site owner and the overall friendliness of the members.
Not a problem enquiring_mind, exactly what friends are for...I could tell you desired a way in which to be civil by simply being able to reply to folk. Nevertheless, Premium Members have access to much more as Sister Destee stated...Peace In my sister friend, for real!
One last thing, all members aren't aware of the user note option and subsequently miss opportunities to converse. It may take some, weeks before they check user notes
Sorry about the 25 post stipulation enquiring_mind, Sister Destee is correct; however, you can respond to notes left here on your profile page by simply clicking that person's name, in turn, it brings you to their profile page, then look just under the person's name for the option, user notes, click and leave your response.
This friendship appears to be cyberspace, but for me it is as real as it gets, if there is anything I can help you with during your stay here, please don't heistate to ask...Peace In my sister friend.