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    Black Women : You are Pregnant and He Wants DNA Tests

    If my fiance asked me to get a DNA test, I would be offended. I would comply with his request, but I would be offended. I feel that the request in itself is an attack on my character. As I said, I would willingly honor his request, but I don't know if I could or would be able to forgive him for it.
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    Black Men : Skinny jeans, Ear rings and Long hair

    Ironically, I was talking with my teenage daughter about this the other day. Honestly my issue is not the earrings, it is the tight, painted on pants. I don't understand how men can wear them comfortably. When we (women) wear tight pants, we risk getting an infection. But anywho, my daughter...
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    Black People : White Man Did The Killing - Black Man Charged

    They were wrong for breaking in that mans home--but I'm not sure he should be charged with murder--I dont think that is befitting. He should take all of the charges associated with breaking and entering, burgerly, etc...but not murder.
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    Jails / Prisons : 13 Yr Old Baby Gets 60 Years in Prison

    I agree with you. When I first read about this, I tried to muster up sympathy for this child--but I couldnt. As a parent of two daughters I know that I would be outraged that he had the mind-frame to commit such an act. I wouldn't want him out on the streets to hurt anyone else.
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    Black People : 15 yr old girl punched and pepper sprayed by cop

    She was wrong for biting him. But what the media didnt report was that she was mentally disabled, which is one of the reasons she was acting the way she was. They made it seem like she was just a wayward child who didnt want to listen to authority.
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    Black Women : Are You Pretty with no Makeup, Weave, Wig, Perm ?

    Yes I havent worn make up since I was 12 and "playing around". My grandmother told me back then that Black women have a natural beauty that doesnt require make up and make up only assists you in looking old. So, I stopped wearing it, except for my clear or neutral lip gloss. Also, from time...
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    Black Relationships : Please help, ADVICE?!

    No, if I came off as being "upset" about it, then I didnt mean to. I'm just not understanding to the generalized statements that were made of black women as a whole. I have not disputed that some issues are there. Put it this way, your generalization of black women, is like a european saying...
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    Black Relationships : Please help, ADVICE?!

    No its not a sensitive area at all--its a healthy discussion. Now, you say black women do a lot of unhealthy things to themselves. Ok, I disagree--SOME black women do a lot of unhealthy things, some black MEN do a lot of unhealthy things. Hell, let me go outside the box for a minute and say...
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    Black Relationships : Please help, ADVICE?!

    Hold up.... As much as I like reading your posts, I must refute this and I think that its necessary to tell you not to over-generalize women, black women in particular. Everyone may feel like they have played the fool once. This is, many times, how you grow as a person and learn your...
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    Black Spirituality Religion : Suicide

    I dont have any particular place to refer you, off hand. I'll look around if you want something documented. However, I was always under the impression that it was wrong because it was the one thing that you couldn't repent and change once you do it, then its a done deal.
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    Black Education / Schools : School District May Ban Christmas and Halloween to Accommodate Muslims

    I agree. Too often people try to control others based on their perception of events, which is wrong anyway you look at it. If you have a problem with a situation, remove yourself from it, dont participate, but dont infringe on the rights of others to do so. I dont even like Halloween, but...
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    Black Relationships : ladies, do you care?

    :qqb016: No, I dont like uncleanliness, because it makes me feel unclean...literally, nastiness makes my skin itch and crawl.
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    Black People : Santa Claus a Pedophile ?

    Well, santa clause never played a part in my life and he never played a part in my daughters life. My mother never lied to me or led me to believe that some "rosy cheeked european man would bring me gifts if I was good" she stated simply that she worked to hard to get me things and she wouldnt...
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    Black People : Do you find this offensive?

    Well, I dont like the term "colored" but lets be honest, Black is Better, but I digress. My real concern with the commercial is probably that sting (however faint it may be) that every black woman feels when she sees a Brother with a White woman, even though in this commercial, he wasnt...
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    Black Relationships : ladies, do you care?

    Yes, I care. Thank Jah, my SO is meticulous. I just dont like uncleanliness, so things like that bother me. I agree with Zulile, I haven't gone out of my way and did a "spot check", but if its noticeably unclean, then we have a problem.
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