What's up everyone?
Hey I just got through watching the videos. Quite honestly I think alot of brothers up in here could probably learn something from the interactions between Ms. Randall and Father MC.
Know I think the brother was definitely somewhat disrespectful towards the sister. And I think it also shows us what type of backwards, immature mentality alot of our men and particularly our women have.
Women I understand that you are going to have to go through a period in your life when you are young. Where you make rebellious dating choices. Where you tend to date guys that will upset your parents. Are guys who people would consider dangerous or not your type.
This type of dating is something most young women tend to go through betweeen the ages of 18 to 25. But what I'm noticing particular with Black women. Especially the most desirable sisters is that they tend to never grow out of this stage. I think this has alot to do with the fact that alot of sisters are growing up without a real father figure in the home. So they are getting the cues on what a real man should look like and suppose to be from unfortunately all the wrong sources.
Like the media, and popular music. But some of the biggest and worst influences are from the people most close to these women.
Know I don't know the ins and outs of the relationship between Ms. Randall and FatherMc. But I think alot of the dynamics I spoke on play a big role into her attraction to the brother.
Know to the brothers and I want to say this because I've read a couple of posts in here. The most recent was a post title I believe. Do hardworking brothers go unappreciated.
First of all I have not met a sister yet that did not want and respected a man that had good work ethics.
But what I believe is the problem with alot of us brothers who would percieve themselves to be quality men. Is the fact that alot of times we are not turning these sisters on sexually. Because we are not being bold enough in our actions towards them and in the way we communicate with the women we desire.
Trust me brothers I had to learn this to because I went through alot of interactions between sisiters that I wanted to get with. Coming out scratching my head wondering way it did not lead to a romantic relationship with the woman.
Alot of times the hardworking sincere brothers may be coming off to women as to stiff are boring. I think sometimes brothers you can be to concern about being respectful and decent that you forget to portray to these women that you are sexually and exciting.
If you really listen to how FatherMc describe how he got with Ms. Randle.
You will see that part of her attraction to him was how bold and upfront he was in his intentions towards her. Know I'm not suggesting that brothers just walk up to women that they do not know and kiss them. But you have to remember that women respond to boldness.