Black Relationships : black women/white men

I prefer a REAL man

I don't find all "white" men physically unattractive

there are some handsome white dudes

but this is the thing

what i love and have relation to is brown, got kinky hair, and THINKS and FEELS like i do

as a Goddess i belong to my God because we create each others' existence through our perception of GOD....

so really if his actual image was white i would reject that to appear white

physical existence is the poetry of rejection
 
Yea, old topic, I know. But....apart from deeper reasons, do black women find white guys physically unattractive? Seems many black women would rather be alone than be with a white guy.undefined
Back to the original topic before it got sideswiped by some black guy espousing foreign women over american black women **rolls eyes** (I'm sure that was no big loss)...

I think some white men are very attractive. Am I open to dating them? Sure. The traits I would want in a white guy are the same traits I would want in a black guy, but he must also demonstrate a keen knowledge, respect, and compassion of black ethics (ethos), black culture, black politics, and black socialism - akin to the lines of Tim Wise. None of that 'I'm married to a black women and don't see color' utopian bullcrap. You do see color, you will see color, and you understand and acknowledge how color, race, and race privilege plays a role in my life and his - but it won't hinder the love we have for each other. Had the pleasure of conversing with several like-minded white guys on facebook, and elsewhere, but rarely have I met such in real life or my neck of the woods. I'm not currently dating, but I know that when I do, my options are open.

White men represent a lot of negative stuff in general (white power, privilege, racism, slave masters, sexist, etc) - and black women have been in charge of carrying (breeding, teaching, training, and raising) the black family for generations - so may see dating and marrying a white men as a let down to the black family. But there are individual white men (and women) who acknowledge and denounce the racist and sexist ideology that their white brethren have done, said, or continue to promote. They are fully aware and are 'conscious' white men and women. I didn't even think that was possible since it seems like they are denouncing their own people - but these are white people that value 'truth' over and above eurocentrism and ethnocentrism - and that's the type and kind of 'pink skin' I wouldn't mind getting down and dirty with. :kiss1:

There is no disrespect of rejection of my black brothas. Still love them, still adore them regardless.

If I choose to be single, it won't be because I choose to be single instead of being with a white man. It will be because I didn't catch any man who struck my fancy at that time.
 
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I prefer black men -- not because I disapprove of those of another race, but because (like I said on another thread) I have a fetish for black, very muscular men.

Right now, I really do like a certain white man, though. Two of the reasons I like him is because he loves black women and doesn't try to take the easy road by going with a member of another racial group that appears to be "less aggresive" than we black woman apparently are. And not to offend all, but it seems as if many black men can't take the heat nowadays. =\

You prefer bm but you date a white dude. But you prefer he who cant "take the heat". What is this heat? I thought we were built for the SUN. Like many bw in the IRD cults, you also note that he loves BLACK WOMEN, not black people. Typical attitude of the self centered black feminst.
 
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There is a syndrome that I have viewed in NYC for 30 years working in civil service areas both blue collar and white collar, amongst facilities that employed thousands of Afro Americans at an average of 300 to 500 per shift and in proximity.
I have observed a pattern of Black women almost throwing themselves at white men,
when there were many positive honest brothers, both management and craft, who they would not give the time of day to, and the Jerry Springer kind of irony to this is that th fact that
some of these men were virulent racists and had reprimands for such, made no difference to them
Truly you are a candidate for the church for men only at you tube if u are not already a member. To understand this mentality my brother, you must first wipe out the notion that all bw were pulled into the woods kicking and screaming while being raped by the wm during slavery. This lead white women to feminism. Ironically many bw view the man who led his woman to break away from him because of his sex with "Jezabel", as the solution to all her problems. Many have the "white night" complex. If a bw is dirty ,tired, and wanting some relaxation after days of manual field labor, a white land owner need not drag her away kicking and screaming.C'mon bro, you know many of our women have no loyalty. Not all bw are destee.com type you know? This is part of what maintained the institution of slavery. Bw often more than not willingly gave up sex to white masters during slavery. Not all, but a way higher percentage than you likely think. This decimated the relationship between bm and bw. There are a handful of accounts by slaves(literate) and owner who kept diaries of very open relationships with land owners during our darkest hours to her own benefit. Many black feminst women who promote IRD are very proud of this history and fanitically suggest that bw "break away from the tribe" where she is "abused used and oppressed by the bm". If you google bw wm sex or relationships during slavery, you will find this stuff. Sorry I have no links now but they are out there. Just seek and its very easy to find.
 
Reflecting on Sister Medusa's topic, I think it's kind of sad what white people represent nowadays. They might actually be nice if most of them weren't racist, arrogant egocentric devil-spawn.

Not that it matters here, but I am not attracted to pink/green-vein women. But I've met nice ones. And heck I've seen some white males that really do try to please their Black lovers. They make an effort but can't see that they have a history of negativity that they carry with them spiritually and intellectually - that's what makes 98% of them douches.

One,

- Ikoro
 

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