Here is an example.
What if your husband and your son got into an argument over money. Added to that, your husband was WRONG. Could you stand by your husband, forsaking all others?
I'd stand by my husband in the above scenario ... only because ... i'd talk to him about it in private.
I would show him why i think he is wrong, try to get him to see (or show me where i am wrong).
That way, once he sees it, he can go to the child and correct his own self.
Probably not the best, to correct a parent in front of the child.
Should he never agree with me, i'd probably let my child know i agree with them, but Daddy does not see it our way.
We'll have to go with him on it ... as i'm sure it's not a life threatening situation.
It's more important at this point, to stand with your husband, and teach your child how to stand with their Father - even if we think he is wrong.
Loving Us!
Destee