Black Relationships : “Black Women Only Want Thugs” is a Load of Crap

Only lost Judah, Isschacar, zebulon and Benjamin women want ishmaelite and Edomites savagery blood thirsty thugs and the lost simple minded lost Israeli brethren..just like their edomite Neanderthal sisters

What you say is true. Unfortunately, the number of the lost is not insignificant in both genders. The lost even label themselves with the names of "N****" and "B** B****". Right now it seems the best we can do is try to make sure we raise our children well enough that they do not join the ranks of the lost. I fear we are losing though, since their ranks seem to grow faster than ours.
 
What you say is true. Unfortunately, the number of the lost is not insignificant in both genders. The lost even label themselves with the names of "N****" and "B** B****". Right now it seems the best we can do is try to make sure we raise our children well enough that they do not join the ranks of the lost. I fear we are losing though, since their ranks seem to grow faster than ours.

You know I never allowed rap music in my house. My son was absolutely unaware of it. Too many N-words, bxxtches and hoes for my ears, let alone my child. He grew up on Reggae, R&B, Mowtown, and Jazz. Today he hates Rap. He thinks it's his original idea. I hear him telling his friends he doesn't like rap because of all the cussing

But, at a family gathering, my cousin's friend was telling me how she is fighting with the schools administration, because the school didn't want her 6 and 8 year olds wearing "grills" to school. I couldn't beleive my ears.

First. There s something really wrong when 6 and 8 year olds ask for grills for Christmas. (my son had no idea what a grill was) These kids are obviously watching programs that are age inappropriate.

Now, why does Mom think this is cute? Why did she buy these kids grills? What is she trying to raise?

And, btw, yes Dad and Mom are married and live together.

Why is it so important that these kids wear grills to school? Where is the focus?

Anyway, I as too through. I used to respect this woman. I made a mental note that there would be no playdates for my son with these gangsta kids.
 
You know I never allowed rap music in my house. My son was absolutely unaware of it. Too many N-words, bxxtches and hoes for my ears, let alone my child. He grew up on Reggae, R&B, Mowtown, and Jazz. Today he hates Rap. He thinks it's his original idea. I hear him telling his friends he doesn't like rap because of all the cussing

But, at a family gathering, my cousin's friend was telling me how she is fighting with the schools administration, because the school didn't want her 6 and 8 year olds wearing "grills" to school. I couldn't beleive my ears.

First. There s something really wrong when 6 and 8 year olds ask for grills for Christmas. (my son had no idea what a grill was) These kids are obviously watching programs that are age inappropriate.

Now, why does Mom think this is cute? Why did she buy these kids grills? What is she trying to raise?

And, btw, yes Dad and Mom are married and live together.

Why is it so important that these kids wear grills to school? Where is the focus?

Anyway, I as too through. I used to respect this woman. I made a mental note that there would be no playdates for my son with these gangsta kids.
Ahmean sister :)

They're lost for a lack of knowledge, years I tried telling our Israeli brethren and sisteren to learn not the ways of heathens, and I was hated even by my simple headed Israeli cousins, because they believe easu and his cave Neanderthal female is "down " because she shakes her diarrhea stinking smelly butt cheeks, using charms and enchantments from these satanic blackface buck dancing pop trash they call gangsters rap, gangsters is not honorable...but I mourn for them sister
 
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The other day, I listened to a Black man, for the umpteenth time, admonish Black women to stop overlooking nice guys for those bad boy thugs we love so much. And something in me snapped, finally. Whut?! I call bull.

If you’re unfamiliar with the trope I’m talking about, let me start from the beginning. There’s the well-known adage that “nice guys finish last,” which theorizes that simple kindness will not get you laid. It won’t. But taken a step further, there is a rather common lament among Black men that Black women only run after thugs. Black women, they say, routinely tell men, “You’re too nice!” and that they need a man with a little danger to him.

I can’t offer empirical data to refute this claim. There is no CDC study on the ratio on dating success of Nice Guys vs. Thugs. What I can offer, however, is a bit of common sense–because, frankly, this “Black women all want thugs” view is nonsensical, classist, reductive, and lazy to me.

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http://trulytafakari.com/black-women-only-want-thugs-is-crap/

It's funny that you take this stand as being lazy, classist, or reductive. But I've experienced it a lot. I'm not saying all, but I will say that this is true of many black women. And it really doesn't matter how well you treat them. The "you're too nice" mentality exists. It's been on Divorce Court where two comedians who were good together, according to the husbad, ended up with a broken marriage because, as the former wife said, "he's too nice, he doesn't have to tell me he loves me twice a week," and the classic one of that video clip: "If I say I'm hungry, he won't just fix me a sandwich. This brother will get in the kitchen and fix me meatloaf, collard greens, cornbread, the whole works."

Seven women have broke off relationships with me over this same reason, including the mother of my son, who later learned that what I gave her was love, not a front. But to say it doesn't exist? I say try being one of us nice guys, and see it and experience it yourself. Been there, done that. Bought and burned 7 t-shirts from that experience set.
 

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