Black Relationships : Friends With Benefits

[Angela22]

go ahead, do it.......

So in depth; gonna have to take this all in and process it later, but thanks James. Haha.

 

[Liberty]

What's your take on this type of relationship?

Do you think a man and woman engaging in such could actually do so without developing deeper feelings for each other?

What if the two already had a meaningful relationship that fell flat; do you believe becoming sex buddies would inevitably spark something again(even in one of them), or that it'll run its course like it's meant to?

I'm asking... for a friend.

I have known people both male and female who have done the FWB. They act like it's the best thing ever. But, personally I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. Unless, you absolutely do not WANT to be in a real relationship. I think the FWB will block your blessings. I know that sounds corny, but I think it's true. Your soul mate could be checking you out, but every time he passes by your house that FWB is parked in your driveway. There's another name for it....c***blocker. Bad news. I say enjoy your single time. Get spiritually fit, whatever that means to you. Get a new hobby, maybe one that brings in extra cash. Have male friends to hang out with, to introduce you to some nice guys and stuff, but no benefits.

Oh, especially not with an ex. Somebody would probably catch feelings and then when its over, bad blood.

 

[Kemetstry]

Guys can handle this type of relationship quite well. As long as they benefit. It is usually the female that has the problem





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[Angela22]

I have known people both male and female who have done the FWB. They act like it's the best thing ever. But, personally I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. Unless, you absolutely do not WANT to be in a real relationship. I think the FWB will block your blessings. I know that sounds corny, but I think it's true. Your soul mate could be checking you out, but every time he passes by your house that FWB is parked in your driveway. There's another name for it....c***blocker. Bad news. I say enjoy your single time. Get spiritually fit, whatever that means to you. Get a new hobby, maybe one that brings in extra cash. Have male friends to hang out with, to introduce you to some nice guys and stuff, but no benefits.

Oh, especially not with an ex. Somebody would probably catch feelings and then when its over, bad blood.

Thank you for this. Personally, I've been considering for the longest if I actually want a real relationship... ever again.

In regards to your post, both the male and the female asserted it was the best thing?

 

[Angela22]

Guys can handle this type of relationship quite well. As long as they benefit. It is usually the female that has the problem





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I can understand why. Females tend to get more emotionally attached than males, I suppose.

It's great that I know my own feelings.