Black Relationships : Your man looking at other women and flirting...how do you feel?

[Chevron Dove]

When married and dating females can tell me if Denzel, Shamar, Taye or whoever walked into the room and they wouldnt notice, them and only them can feign jealousy. lol


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ha! if those three men walked into a room, you better believe, I'm gonna notice, but that doesn't mean that I would disrespect my husband, cause he is gorgeous.

 

[Asomfwaa]

yes but we have confidence and some of our men still cant help checking out other women. Have any of you caught your man trying to sneak a peek lol have you men, you know you want to look but your woman is watching you... any men get caught looking? lol

I started singing "Big Ole Butt" while sitting with a past date--and she got mad because SHE saw a Big Ole Butt in front of me.

That's when I learned the word "tunnel vision," though in all honesty I noticed that big ole too.

But I was just singing--you know?

 

[Keita Kenyatta]

I started singing "Big Ole Butt" while sitting with a past date--and she got mad because SHE saw a Big Ole Butt in front of me.

That's when I learned the word "tunnel vision," though in all honesty I noticed that big ole too.

But I was just singing--you know?

The reality was that she saw it before you and from that point was johnny on the spot concerning anything you said or looked at. I can't prove what I'm about to say because it may be subconscious....but with all that has been taken away from us as a people, we may tend to be possessive about the one thing (person) that we feel as if we shouldn't have to worry about losing. Thanks for your honesty.

 

[Black-king]

I started singing "Big Ole Butt" while sitting with a past date--and she got mad because SHE saw a Big Ole Butt in front of me.

That's when I learned the word "tunnel vision," though in all honesty I noticed that big ole too.

But I was just singing--you know?

Lol, singing uh that's a new technique. Our sistas are gorgeous like that, it's almost impossible not to notice them when they around however if you are with your girl, gotta shift your eyes quickly from Big ole the moment you notice her, or it will be trouble, it also a sign of respect to your woman.

 

[Asomfwaa]

Lol, singing uh that's a new technique. Our sistas are gorgeous like that, it's almost impossible not to notice them when they around however if you are with your girl, gotta shift your eyes quickly from Big ole the moment you notice her, or it will be trouble, it also a sign of respect to your woman.

I know--but you know--I was just singing. Heck, I think that she was singing a song too.

You know--you're on a date--then a song comes into your head.

Or a song was in your head way back--but you're like--can't sing now--then you do sing . . ..

I mean--I wasn't singing about the girl in front of me. It was 'bad timing;' but let's be forreal. When did we ever have 'good timing?'