Black Relationships : Desperate Single Women

[MsInterpret]

I generally don't worry about who a woman dates, unless she is a friend or family member...But I cannot stand to see any woman act stupidly and desperate when it comes to men.

The women who dress inappropriate, sleep with a man just to make him her man, say things to please men, buying men's love, dumping their female friends for men...Even go out of her way to get pregnant just to keep a man.

I have a friend who has 4 kids by 4 different men and each one she thought that they were going to be with her because of the child she had...And what's sad is she pretty much admitted it.

I'm not sure as to why women behave this way (I know some men too)...And most of the time I see it happening from women who are fairly attractive.

Maybe it's the sense of "time is running out and I need to get married or my life will be unfulfilled"....or just low-self esteem in general....or maybe just the fear of being alone.

But the reason why I despise it so much is because there are some jerk off men out here who use women like this to their advantage.

This is just me ranting.....

 

[skuderjaymes]

listen.. Missy.. a man having a sexual relationship with a woman is equal to
a woman having a sexual relationship with a man. 50/50.. He is using her
no more than she is using him. And everything you said about low self-esteem
and time and attractiveness can be applied to men too. Women do not have
a monopoly on low self esteem. And your friend with 4 kids by 4 dudes is
pulling your leg.. she's rationalizing.. she's just loose. That story she told you
is a convenient prepackaged sympathy-drawing responsibility-shirking device
that can be pulled out of her bra at every occasion where she needs to justify her
bad decision making..

now..

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[skuderjaymes]

and for the record.. men are almost always desperate.. or maybe willing is a
better word for the same result.

 

[Shikamaru]

and for the record.. men are almost always desperate.. or maybe willing is a
better word for the same result.

I will concur .
Women are always and highly desired, in my opinion.

Those pesky biological imperatives .....

 

[MsInterpret]

Now you listen..

Women who dress like sluts to get attention or sleep with a man (instantly) and then expect a relationship are desperate....Or even try to keep a man (trapping) by having his baby are desperate..

Are you disputing that they are not?

Women are more emotionally involved when it comes to sex, for the most part.

You ever have sex with a woman who you did not plan to have a relationship and then all of sudden she gets attached?