Time and experience will allow you to develop it, believe me!!
But you know "The bees come to the honey."
When a Black man is with a good Black woman--Black women want that man. And only then!
Everyone knows that if you are walking pass a Sister, you're invisible.
But if you're with a woman--ANY WOMAN--Your Mom too--you're more important than the stop sign.
Shaking my head.
That's why we need a communal ritual where women can look at single men--so I don't have to vent about street treatment.
I don't really think so. I would be more like "That's Halle Berry," instead of "Here's your divorce papers."
Sometimes I see Sisters who wow me physically and mentally. Halle Berry doesn't do that for me--so I won't trade her at all.
What's your killer massage gotta do with pleasing you?
You know what--don't answer that. :-p
You have a point...and the younger the brother is, the worse it is. A sister could just speak with a bother and the brother be like; Yo dog, she big on me, when all she was doing was speaking. The one great lesson that I learned in life is that; "it's very rare that what you see on the outside that is a reflection of what's on the inside". This means that the average brother has to learn to dismiss the package immediately and begin looking for the same inner light or beauty inside of her that he sees outside.