Black People : WHY SISTERS FLAUNT THEIR BODIES?

no one doubts that males enjoy looking at the female body.
there is need for additional testimonials. we get it.
the OP was about why do females flash it so.

do they show it off for the benefit of male eyes? are they simply generous?

just WHAT do the sisters GET out of the flesh flashing?
that was the question.


Nakedness is the natural condition. And for what it's worth.. I've been to countries where the women were covered from head to toe.. and they still command your attention.. that magnetisim goes deeper than revealing clothing.
 
I like my body...and I like my feminine sex appeal...Not because of the fact that men are attracted to me...but because I feel beautiful in whatever I want to wear. I love my boobs...I mean LOVE my breasts. They're awesome...And I'm not big on having them all out on display but they are there and are noticeable. And I'm not gonna wear a smock or something a Muslim woman would wear.
Men look, even when I'm wearing business attire even at work and I have a button up blouse and dress pants...
It's not that I'm flaunting my body...it's just that they're gonna look at what is there and men are gonna always look at something they like....If you don't wanna look then DIVERT YOUR EYES!
Stupidest thing I ever heard...men complaining about the very thing that they enjoy looking at.

CRYING MEN: "NO PLEASE STOP ATTRACTING ME WITH YOUR FEMININE BODY!!!" :10800::cry:

Solution: Go date a man. Problem solved.
 
This particular response is worthy of the finest ornaments. It should be a public service announcement for Sistahs and Brothas. This is what it should be about first. A Queen having confidence in how she looks, however she decides to make herself look.

If she wants to have her "boobs" out, then she should if she feels good about it. If she wants them to be hidden...hey that's fine too if this makes her appreciate who she is. But also, if a Queen wants her guy to dictate to her how she should dress, that also should be allowed.

We are not going to agree on what is and what is not 'decency' because as our Brotha pointed out earlier concerning certain cultures and nude tribes which I have seen first hand.

Thank you Queen for giving us such a powerful insight on this subject.

I will say this....

Having big boobs out is a whole nother thing...I'm not saying wear low revealing tops that give your nipples a sneak preview. I'm saying you can still dress SEXY without having to show an article of skin.
Some women's breasts are big and it's hard to hide them. But you can still wear a flattering shirt. But it isn't going to prevent a man's eyes from looking if that's what he wants to do.
Even with having a big butt...You can't tuck your butt into your butt hole and hide it if it's big...Some women's butts are so big a momo can't conceal it's massiveness.
 
The point which needs to be clear is that each Black Woman should do her. And she should not be critiqued by a Brotha or a Sistah (for that matter) because what she feels sexy is not consistent with someone else's defintion of what sexy and decent should be. And yes, this means if a Queen wants to show some nipple, some butt... then that's how she does her and who among us has the high-level, self-righteousness in them to say "you skank for wearing that"?

Let them step forward and tell us all how they so got it all together.

You see this is the rule and I want all yall to remember this: A Black Woman is Beautiful despite how she dresses, despite her income level or despite her social status in life.

All Black Women are beautiful and not less than because of what she wears or don't wear.
 

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