What the hell makes woman so hard to talk to, what make them always want to argue. I hate that SH*T! It doesn't make since to me. Please don't attack me I don't need anymore of that in my life. Just honest answer, and solutions.
Emortalist ... Welcome Welcome Welcome ... Thanks for joining us and sharing! If you approach your conversations with women, like above, therein lies your answer. You need to learn how to talk to folk without swearing right out of the gate. It's disrespectful, and doesn't create the most inviting energies. I certainly wouldn't want to talk with you for long, if that's the best you have to give. I say it's the answer, but there may be more improvements you need to make. For the record, cursing / swearing is not allowed here. It's a rule violation, so please stop. Again, thanks for joining us! Much Love and Peace. Destee
Hello Emortalist and welcome! Your question generalizes women and lumps them together making your claim an inaccurate statement. But, based on the emotion you have expressed, you appear to be frustrated with the women you have communicated with. If this is something you truly want to figure out and change, as Destee has shared, think about how you express yourself to women. If this is a pattern of behavior that leads to your frustration, consider making some effort to change your communication style and see if that might bring about better results when you talk to women. Good luck!
Pardon me for swearing.... wont happen again. I had just finished another nonproductive conversation and was looking for some real help. Thanks for your words they were so helpful the way you figured out what my problem was so fast was a real eye opener, I never thought of that, I'm going to work on that right away. Thank you for your time and attention.
Sincerely.... thank you for you words you were correct I am frustrated, but I promise you I am very respectful and a understanding when I speaking to or dealing with women, especially black woman. I love you so much! So much so that I believe that is the problem. You say I'm generalizing woman meaning they are not all the same, well maybe they are not. Can you tell me what I should be looking for in a woman that tells me that we can have a relationship void of erational and pointless disagreements? I have no problem admiting when I'm wrong if I am, I have to acknowledge it in order to grow. I want to agree or agree to disagree, either way i want to come to some understanding in order to have harmony in my house.