Quote please, because I have no idea what you are talking about. If you need something confirmed, or you're confused, I'll clear it up for you. 'Future hubby' is not current or past one. And I don't think I ever once said I stopped giving up sex to anybody. Please quote where i said that. but you won't come back with a quote. you'll either say you don't feel like looking or you won't be able to find it. And I won't say I 'lucked out' in that aspect. I know sistas who have had sex and babies and still winded up getting married. One even stayed married 'until death' - but granted, her husband was a slanga and he died in his 20's. They were only married about 4 years. Still... they got married. Again, it's about what two people and if they are on the same accord. Many are not on the same accord, and many don't even know what they want themselves. My one girlfriend, who is 31, wants to get married... or so she says. But when also says she doesn't want to find the 'right' man to marry at this time because she not ready financially, emotionally, and mentally to be married. So I'm like 'dang gurl, which one is it?' But she ain't the only like that. Some people think they want something because other folks tell them that is what they should have. They don't really know what they want. You're complicit in your own problems, same as a lot of of women. While you're out gallavanting around with so-called bimbo.s, you may be missing the women of your dreams because your time is taken up with the bimbo.s And yet you complain about how her time is taking up with mookie. And round and round we go on the merry go around. Where it stops... we all know. The same place it always does At the beginning.