Black Relationships : Why Arent We Marrying?

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by Kemetstry, Mar 26, 2010.

  1. Bootzey Well-Known Member

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    #1: I am a female. Had you bothered to look in the upper right hand corner of my box you would have noticed that.

    #2: I stated on page 8 of this hread that I have been married. Therefore when I speak, I am speaking from a position of Knowledge and experience not making guesses and excuses. Like you're doing.

    #3: I am currently in a committed relationship by my OWN choice. So I can speak from both sides of the fence.

    No one is saying that you don't have the right to your own opinion. But I take issue with you selling it like its the ONLY way it should be done.


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    I can protect myself. And two parents committed to raising their children correctly can protect children as well

    1- No one is disputing your right to advocate marriage, though you seem to have a problem with those who do not advocate marriage.

    2- My Culture does not advocate marriage

    3- Really? Animals? They are not sentient beings capable of our level of thought and sophistication. But if you want to equate yourself to animals, far be it from me to stop you


    So just because I ake a conscious choice to NOT marry I'm sexually loose? WOW.... Who knew?
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    1. I havent expressed my theory, as you put it

    2. Just because you dont seem to understand or better, agree with the topic, doesnt make it nonsensical or psychobabel.

    3. I dont agree with your views. But I didnt knock them

    4. You obviously didnt read the article or study

    As I have said repeatedly, if you find someone that goes along with your views, i wont knock it. But I doubt if most go along with it long term

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    1. Sorry dear. I didnt look up your profile

    2. You arent the only one that's been married. We still disagree

    3. I havent expressed MY opinion
















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    Peace,

    The only thing about me that might be considered a problem is that I'm in tune with the reality that I'm God, Allah, the supreme being. I don't look to no mystery god for anything. There is no mystery god. So what it comes down to is me being in control of self and taking responsibility for my actions. This doesn't sit well with the establishment because the establishment isn't about people being free and certainly isn't about people having the knowledge of who they are.

    Therefore if we roll with the religious perspective that we're all born in sin (evil) and we can only be liberated from our evil nature through believing in a mystery spook, then all is good. Marriage is a result of that paradigm and it goes with the assumption that people (namely couples) cannot conduct themselves without the aid of a church body and an advocate of the state. I ain't mad at anyone if they're not the said person of that ability to take care of their own business. The issue arises when people who cannot manage themselves want to dictate to the people who can, how to go about their business. That's like a child trying to tell an adult how to do what they do. That's backwards. So being the true and living God, I reverse the polarity by demonstrating how things happen when the black man stands up and takes control of all the other things childish people submit to.

    Like I said, I ain't mad at anyone if my perspective disorients or confuses them. God has been missing among the people so yeah, they might be a little off center until they recognize the true and living........ if they recognize the true and living.

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