You should be allowed to date whom you want. Black women normally don't like lightier complexions of men. Black women are statiscally the most unmarried women in America along with asian men. Black women normally are attracted to darkskin blackmen whether they be light or dark complexion. They limit themselves based upon they're naturual embedded drive to procreate with whom they believe is the strongest male in their group. All females do this follow what they believe is more secure and nature programs them to act this way. There are more black men dating and marrying outside their race than black women. Black women are by nature forced to be attracted only to well endowed men for procreation purposes. If you don't understand what I mean then don't ask. Mating is about sex in the animal and take away spiritual wisdom and growth we are just animals.