Black Relationships : WHY ARE SISTERS SO BAD AT CHOOSING MEN?

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  1. Akilles Banned

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    You should be allowed to date whom you want.

    Black women normally don't like lightier complexions of men.

    Black women are statiscally the most unmarried women in America along with asian men.

    Black women normally are attracted to darkskin blackmen whether they be light or dark complexion.

    They limit themselves based upon they're naturual embedded drive to procreate with whom they believe is the strongest male in their group.

    All females do this follow what they believe is more secure and nature programs them to act this way.

    There are more black men dating and marrying outside their race than black women.

    Black women are by nature forced to be attracted only to well endowed men for procreation purposes. If you don't understand what I mean then don't ask.

    Mating is about sex in the animal and take away spiritual wisdom and growth we are just animals.
    Akilles, Oct 26, 2005
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    My personal opinion from experience but here goes.....

    I think that black women have issues with picking the wrong guy because of a flaw (that is personally i think) with all women. Most won't agree but here me out and that is this.....

    Women don't want the proverbial good guy, they want to change him (being thug or whatever) into the proverbial good guy, thus the challenge. For many people out there....no challenge ...no care.
    LovNThySoul, Oct 31, 2005
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    I think this is true in some cases Women did help to cilivilize the male in Ancient Africa. They were the first leaders of the troop.

    But we live in cilivilization not the wild. Women choosing bad men because they are whores.

    Listen to what the bible says that a good woman is hard to find.

    Where they are no decent women they are no decent men.

    A nation can rise no higher than its women.

    A Harlot doesn't want to except her role as a nurtured of society and her sacred role of the mother goddess.

    A Indian sage once said that American women have the choice of being whores or goddess. No in between.

    If you are looking for good woman then America has few black or white or anything else. America's values are wrong and women cling to the society more than men.

    Good women are found in societies not affected by America's Globalization and perverse culture.
    Akilles, Oct 31, 2005
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    Akilles, You are out of line. Calling women who make bad decisions with men Whores. If you have a problem with women choices, then I hope you aren't contributing to them as well. The bible says alot of things like bearing false witness against thy neighbor.

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    Hello LovnThySoul!:hi:

    Welcome to Destee's!:jumping: Make yourself at Home because you are!

    I think you're on to something here. This has been my experience also. The maternal nature of a women is to protect and guide. Sometimes you'll see a person in trouble and the subconscious desire to help is almost inevidible.

    For the Sisters/Brothers(yes, some brothers share this maternal instinct) who fall into this catergory, we have to think more of ourselves, If a grown person is satisfied with their lifestyle, don't try to save them because we can't. They have to want the change for themselves.
    PurpleMoons, Oct 31, 2005
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