Black Christians : The 30 Year Old Male Virgin

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Thoughts on male virginity? On the subject of the article/interview?


If you’ve ever seen The 40-Year-Old Virgin you’re probably familiar with some of the negative stereotypes associated with adult male virgins. But did you know there is a real-life 30-Year-Old Virgin who is nothing like that movie’s main character? JimDre Westbrook, creator of the site Worth the Wait Guy, is defying stereotypes and showing that a man can be creative, confident, inspiring, and abstinent. It was a pleasure to chat with him about his site, his faith, and his movement to change the way people think about male virgins.



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BMWK: Are you a virgin or remaining celibate until marriage? What motivated you to abstain from sex until marriage?

JimDre: I am the real-life 30 year-old virgin! I have never had sex before. I made a pact with God at the tender age of 14 to wait for sex until marriage. I grew up in a household where we believed in God and His word. It’s very important to understand that I made this decision on my own – my parents did not influence my decision either way. I always thought that waiting for sex until marriage was the “ultimate gift” a husband could give to his wife.
BMWK: What is the most difficult part of your decision (e.g., temptation, social pressure)?

JimDre: The most difficult part of my decision is the constant everyday temptation. We live in a very over-sexualized world – sex is everywhere! It’s so easy to be sexually active in 2014, especially living in the Sin City aka Entertainment Capital of The World. The dating culture in Las Vegas is all about “hooking up” and when that’s not your thing, dating life can be a bit challenging.


BMWK: How do women react when you inform them of your decision? Does your decision make dating more difficult?

JimDre: Believe it or not, most women react very positively ...


Read more: BMWK Interviews the 30 Year Old Male Virgin


I say great for this guy! He's stronger than most, actually practicing what's taught in Scriptures, and not bending to the ways of society or temptation. Not to mention proving to many guys out there, this can be done, and you don't have to be gay or unattractive. Because he's certainly super foine. :lol: Too bad he's in Las Vegas.
 
BTW : on your wedding night would you want a man that don't know what he is doing?


You're asking as if men who are "experienced" all know how to satisfy a woman and know exactly what they're doing; I guess that's why so many women complain about not being satisfied; they're all sleeping with virginal men. (Note the sarcasm.) It takes skill which has to be learned, regardless.

And to answer your question, which is whether or not I'd want to be with a man on my wedding night who doesn't revel in fornication, has never had an STD, and certainly doesn't have any children with other females, I say, absolutely. He's a treasure to be cherished; that's not only because it'd be hypocritical of me to deny a man in his virginity just because of it, considering I'm a virgin, but also for the fact that it takes real strength to hold off on sex when so many try to shame you into it, and make men feel like their less of a man.

Now, cease trying to make being a virginal male a shameful thing, and answer my question. What about it is being an "attention ho"? Or is it because he's showing that self control is possible for men, and showing so many other men up, that you say that?
 
You're asking as if men who are "experienced" all know how to satisfy a woman and know exactly what they're doing; I guess that's why so many women complain about not being satisfied; they're all sleeping with virginal men. (Note the sarcasm.) It takes skill which has to be learned, regardless.

And to answer your question, which is whether or not I'd want to be with a man on my wedding night who doesn't revel in fornication, has never had an STD, and certainly doesn't have any children with other females, I say, absolutely. He's a treasure to be cherished; that's not only because it'd be hypocritical of me to deny a man in his virginity just because of it, considering I'm a virgin, but also for the fact that it takes real strength to hold off on sex when so many try to shame you into it, and make men feel like their less of a man.

Now, cease trying to make being a virginal male a shameful thing, and answer my question. What about it is being an "attention ho"? Or is it because he's showing that self control is possible for men, and showing so many other men up, that you say that?



It isn't a shameful thing. Announcing it for publicity is. And that's what he's doing





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It isn't a shameful thing. Announcing it for publicity is. And that's what he's doing

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Or rather, it's encouraging towards other Christians like himself, especially males, which is a righteous thing to do.

Because if what you say is true, you need to stop posting threads of the accomplishments of anyone black around the world, since it's all publicity. Fair?

And what's shameful is what y'all are doing in this thread.
 

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