Black Relationships : Sistahs: What Do White Men Have That We Don't Have Thats So Compelling To You?

Why I got to keep sayin the same thing for this chick, I'on know....
I guess she hard of readin....

This isn't all all that complicated as it might seem.

Sistas still have issues with being the 'backbone of the black community' and that is something they have taken and internalized as a positive thing.

However, since supposedly there is a 'shortage' of black men, many of them have turned to white men to fill a personal and relationship void.
(gee... for the life of me I can't figure out why they wouldn't want to that polygamy thang for black men )

Now how does one reconcile the desire to want and have a black man, to be the backbone of the BLACK community and the black family... and have a 'white' man?

Well... concessions have to made in the mind of those peeps. I think this may be the problem spicybrown is (or was) experiencing.... and that's why her 'white' man can't be 'fully white.' If she reconciles that he isn't 'fully white' and indeed a man of color, then she will feel less like 'selling out' or 'crossing over' in terms of her relationships and (presumed) desire to have a black man.

She good tho. I've seen concessions black people have made about their white lovers and spouses to the point where they deny racism and white supremacy as adamantly and vehemently as any white person. Now that's sad and true indeed. And then the reverse... while the blacks are busy denying and making concessions for their white partner... their white partner gets to think he's isn't 'white' but a 'white' colored person and is somehow now an expert on blackism because he's screwin some black person..... but yet both are denying racism... and saying that blacks are just as racist as whites....does that any dam sense? How you gonna DENY racism yet claim it exist on another level?

But when you have to make concessions and excuses about having a white partner or one that is another race.... NONE of it will sense.

Well lady YOU don't get to call the shots here and it is NOT about my 'opinion' it is about LAYING out the TRUTH for all to TO SEE and DECIDE.. not some one sided garbage constructed in the minds of those with egotistical agendas, low esteem, attention seekers aimed at black people for the sole purpose of CONTROL.

i don read you long time ...so don't flatter yourself by assuming I have 'animosity' for your person...nope.. just like with any black nationalist, African, Christian , Muslim, ATR practitioner , biracial, white, Spanish..et al WITH AGENDAS, I WILL NOT STAND BY WHILST MY PEOPLE ARE MALIGNED FOR YOUR BENEFIT...NO MA'AM, NOT ON MY WATCH!!!!

If Destee sees fit to ban me?..oh well!...just as long as she knows that i mean no disrespect, however TRUTH and INTEGRITY trumps ANYONES sensibilities...i will allow a person more eloquent than me to clarify my position:

''I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.'' (Frederick Douglass)


nuff said...

No-one on here tickles my fancy... i am not swayed by compliments or accolades from humans...for i am all too aware of how fickle humans can be-just as they build you up, they can easily tear you down... So you REALLY need to get over your self!.

sigh....

somebody is weak, insecure, jealous.

Get over it already!

See a therapist. Quit bringing your issues to the board and trying to project them onto someone else