Exactly! But I was forced to do it - I mean - mommy told me not to, but I just couldn't help it!!!
In answer to the question - try a less aversion to black feminist and black feminism and the various subjects and implications that go with that.
I have, or some variation of it, especially from teenagers when I was a teen myself.
Not all of them. Two of my children came out cocoa and milky chocolate. The milky chocolate one had bone-straight hair.
Don't let sisters infatuation for dark skinned brothers fool you. I think many of them are following trends and dark skin brothers are 'in' right now. I think many of them are following trends because I know sisters who still fawn over light skinned and mixed babies for their hair and beauty.... yet want a dark skinned brother. I can't understand that one. They want a man who will give them the least likely chance of having a baby with the features they desire and fawn over.... then they spend their time fretting over how dark the child will be by looking at fingernails and ear lobs; or how how hair is changing and growing courser as the child ages.
Then what was the purpose of getting a dark skinned nappy headed black dude and procreating with him if you can't appreciate that your babies may look the same? **smh**
And 'reverse colorism' does exist. Some light skinned black people (men and women) seek out darker skinned and chocolate skin tones to play down the implications they learned about lighter skin tones (that they are better, house negroes, stuck-up, less black, more socially accepted, don't like dark skin, don't want to be black, prefer whites and white aesthetics, etc).
And also, if whiteness is a genetic mutation (as I believe it to be), then how would it weaken other physical characteristics of a person (like stamina or muscle tone), or increase others (like intellectual ability)?
And blacks aren't doing much of this scientific research, whites are. Since whiteness is a genetic mutation, seems like everyone wants to say it is inferior because it is a mutation. Whites seems especially insecure and sensitive this this mutation, sensing that it is indeed a weakness.... so since they believe it to be true, then it seems like they will make all their research point that way.
Whites are narcissistic. They will often play up their own self-importance and superiority to hide the weakness and inferiority they feel. And since they make blacks feel like devalued crap, ofcourse blacks will exert physical and mental power and stamina to try to compensate for what the whites made them feel....... further making whites feel weak and physically powerless in the process.
From my early younger days in the 90's and this early decade, its real worse in some sisters than many let on, the stuff don't reach the airwaves obviously,lol, but the "colorstruck" self-hating issue is a problem, and basically steered me to my positions against this genocidal garbage.
Now with it being many years later, and having come in contact with strong conscious sisters, it seems its not as bad, but the internet and television airwaves seem to be playing the violin for these cave mutants, trying to get to you sisters, and using mixed breed nuts like halle berry to string yall along.........
Black Love Is The Only Way For Survival And That Means Reproduction Of The Genetic line, not "Mixing" it out, this is really elementary, but obviously the brainwashed self-hating pink and curly hair blue-eye lovin' negroes need to be shocked to life.
I love sisters like you.....absolutely beautiful, we need more of yall to shine through these devil's tricks in 2010.
Hopefully we can get your message out to Genocide Havens like California, Florida, and the U.K, where the mixed-breed production line is trying to spread its wings.