Black Relationships : Sistahs: What Do White Men Have That We Don't Have Thats So Compelling To You?

I am not passing judgement on you. I am going by what you are actually saying that anyone can read from your own words.

I am sure you just didnt expect anyone to challenge you on your own assumptions. You made it personal by stating openly that I was offended. Yet, now you are complaining about my response to your own offense. I stated clearly what I objected to in your statement then you are the one who decided to write a personal narrative about your own family situation. And if you left my name out of that perhaps I would not have responded.


This is an OPEN forum. So, yes I have a right to fix my brain or my mouth to respond openly if I so choose.

As for the "millions" of black women you speak of, in the context of this thread, I dont know what youre talking about because I dont know "millions" fo black women who find white men "compelling". Just as I dont know "millions" ob black men who find white women compelling. I only know of a few black men and women who are intimately involved with white people and they tend to use the same stereotypical arguments to justify and rationalize the choices they make in selectively choosing white people for mates.

Ok. Im "bordering on pathetic". If you say so. But I say and do nothing out of spite because there is no reason to be spiteful. As previousy stated, Im not into white women and dont find them compelling.

In fact I have a message from a friend of mine who loves Black men and is obviously an exception to the "millions" of which you speak.

Its obvious to me that you choose to "ignore" the first point I was trying to make to you yet, insted you choose to refer to me as "ignorant".

Again, disrespect will not gain you respect.


And I will display my "ignorance" by simply "ignoring" any further posts you make.

Yes, Im "pathetic". But I dont blame black Women for my "pathetic" existence.

well, you have done that. what now?

Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I don't remember openly stating that you were offended. I asked you if you were, because only someone who was offended would get as defensive as you did and still are getting. And though in response to that question, you said you weren't offended - you don't 'dig white women' - you just contradicted yourself and said you took it personal.

I never forgot that. You did. You're the one who came at me for stating my opinion and it surely had nothing to do with you on a personal level at the time. I do believe twas' you who told me to watch out for getting banned, right?

You're real good with this contradictory/double standard mess aren't you...

And once again, you have conveniently taken something I said and made it fit your own demented interpretation of what I was saying.

When I referred to MILLIONS of black women, I never once insinuated that I was referring to black women who are compelled by white men. I said "MILLIONS" of black women in reference to how many of them you can find and speak to who will have very similar opinions and experiences to mine when it comes to black men. That's right - MILLIONS.

And we shouldn't "blame black men" for choices we made? What are you talking about, seriously? What's your excuse for those who were in legal, God governed marriages? What's your excuse for those who were in committed, loving relationships? Those raised in loving homes?

Do you even think the vast majority of black men are responsible for any of what they do, or will you conveniently skirt around that question as well?

Riiight.

So, now Im "demented"

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And though in response to that question, you said you weren't offended - you don't 'dig white women' - you just contradicted yourself and said you took it personal.



I never forgot that. You did. You're the one who came at me for stating my opinion and it surely had nothing to do with you on a personal level at the time. I do believe twas' you who told me to watch out for getting banned, right?

You're real good with this contradictory/double standard mess aren't you...



And once again, you have conveniently taken something I said and made it fit your own demented interpretation of what I was saying.

When I referred to MILLIONS of black women, I never once insinuated that I was referring to black women who are compelled by white men. I said "MILLIONS" of black women in reference to how many of them you can find and speak to who will have very similar opinions and experiences to mine when it comes to black men. That's right - MILLIONS.

And we shouldn't "blame black men" for choices we made? What are you talking about, seriously? What's your excuse for those who were in legal, God governed marriages? What's your excuse for those who were in committed, loving relationships? Those raised in loving homes?

Do you even think the vast majority of black men are responsible for any of what they do, or will you conveniently skirt around that question as well?



Riiight.[/QUOTE]


Its obvious that Sister River was correct when she spoke concerning MENTACIDE.

"Uncel Tom"

"Pathetic"

"Demented"

"Pitiful"

Keep "acting out".

Im not the one here who is "getting defensive".

That was going on before I got here.


Later.


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