he wrong..... sure, once in a while is ok to hit the club. every week is not ok. over your protest is not ok. he wrong and he know he wrong. welcome to destee. i hope you can draw some support from being here. peace
Welcome to the Family! yeah, like jamesfrmphilly said: he wrong and he should know he wrong! talk, tell him, try him, but above all: LOVE YOU!
James said it well. He is wrong. If he is out clubbing until 7am Sunday.. you must live in N.Y. ATL or ILL. Those are the states that clubs are open all night. What he is doing is wasting money he could be providing for you and his family. You deserve to be treat with proper respect or attentiveness. He has no disregard for you. He doesn't care for you. He doesn't love you. He is disrespectful of you. He hasn't grown up. He doesn't want to be married and can't come out and say that. If he wants to be married he isn't acting like it. There is nothing in the streets. He isn't being man enough to discuss it with you. he wants to be able to say you ended the realtionship. I say end it. be happy you ended it and get your child support.
I don't think married men should go to clubs because of the temptation. No matter how strong a man thinks he is, he is still A MAN and HUMAN. My husband confessed his infedelity and despite the fact of our marriage being stronger than ever; the cheating occured in the club scene where alchohol was involved and plenty of things that a married man just should not be around. He is in the military so many of his friends are single and live in the clubs. Since I have joined him in his duty station things have been good but i still worry about when he deploys and they go out to clubs or something. So I say all this from experience. If your married there are plenty of other things to do with your friends besides go to clubs and be surrounded by all types of temptation in one room. Some men learn from their mistakes and some men don't and at the same time, some men can handle the club scene and temptation and some can't.
Peace and Blessings I say Get all cleaned up fix yo hair...step out the house and go to them same clubs he be going to...not to get back @ him but to make your point. put on a wig , glasses and dress totally different from your style...LOL! First stop the bar...lolol...heheheh...get you a double of what ever it is that you drink...and if you don't drink get you one anyway...lololol!!!!!!!!!!! Now pep the scene don't let him know it is you...lololol....find you a seat in the cut. If he in da club acting a donkey...let him hang his self. Then get on the dance floor and do yo thing( the point is to have fun with it) even if yo emotions is involved. After you have a lil fun...don't blow your cover stay in disguise and walk up behind him and say buy me a drink...after you get your drink toss it up and leave the club and him. I bet he start staying home once he realize that you liable to pop up @ anytime!!!!!!!!1 Hehehehehe!!!!!! Ok for real...don't waste your time if you are not truely happy!get your Romance, Love and Attention from soemone who want the same things you want out of life and a relationship!