Black Relationships : She Wont Put Out?

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by Kemetstry, Jun 15, 2011.

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Ok, you have been dating the woman steadily for over a month. Yet, she seems totally disinterested

Poll closed Jan 11, 2012.
A. Dump her like a lead weight 3 vote(s) 33.3%
B. Be patient and hope for the best 5 vote(s) 55.6%
C. Become more agressive 1 vote(s) 11.1%
D. Up the ante with flowers and poems 0 vote(s) 0.0%
  1. ru2religious Well-Known Member

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    I'm saying find what you are looking for and give her a chance to find what she's looking for - if what you want isn't on the same wavelength for what she's looking for then you two are wasting each others time. If you can't take the wait, then move on so that she can find someone who is willing to wait. Secondly, you may be waiting for nothing because she just may not be interested in having sex with you but you will never know that unless you open up to her and find out what she's actually looking for and her true intentions toward you as you should let her know your toward her.

    Peace and Blessings,

    Ru2religious
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    If you are going to put her away after just a month of dating, you really didn't want her but just the sex.
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    If the 'chemistry' isn't there, then it is time to move on, especially if other women are interested.
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    .o0( If you can only imagine how frustrating you are to us )
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    The females job is to give the guy a reason to keep coming around. It doesnt have to be sex, but it has to be something
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