I enjoyed the poem and share the Sistars expressed sentiments. I heard it from a perspective of the BEHAVIORS that she hates/rejects. I too reject/hate those BEHAVIORS. I also hate/reject them when they come from women. I hate/reject them when I see or experience myself doing them. I think it is healthy to express the 'good' and the 'bad' as it relates to BEHAVIORS. I hear people doing that all the time. Sometimes the focus is gender based, class based, and/or race based. I trust that that Sistar could equally pen a poem sharing the BEHAVIORS she loves/accepts...as could any of us. I myself, do not consider her a "man-hater". I heard a Sistar expressing BEHAVIORS she rejects. I trust we all hate or reject those BEHAVIORS. Healthy and Effective Communication involves the expression of a RANGE of ALL emotions we feel. M.E.