Black Women : LADIES ONLY! Do you find it hard to be friends with other women?

Discussion in 'Black Women - Sisters - Warriors' started by MsInterpret, Sep 16, 2011.

  1. EgyptianGoddess Member

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    This is a good topic. Now I have heard of this before. And from my expiriance. I would say yes..

    To me. the main question is Who Can You Trust As being a Friend to someone.

    For the most part with my expiriance. This type of female was very much so a Gossipper.. She Ran her mouth..
    all the time. Nor did I ever give her anything to talk about. It just so happend. It was a male That Gave her
    something to talk about. I mean He did say he was 48yrs old married up with a 24year old female. And this female
    talk about for at least two day's Straight. Well After the Whole gossip Situation. This Female,Went Behind my back and told This man
    that I was talking about him and his wife and her cooking, And Some other thing's that added on to that.. I had to cut her
    loose real quick.. But everyone is diffirent. So I would say that women and gay men they can gossip .If You only
    give them something to Gossip about. However, It's all way's up to that person.
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  2. MsInterpret Well-Known Member

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    lol
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    growing up i wasn't that girlie either... it was me and my brother. i used to have that opinion that I wanted male friends in high school because a lot of the girls were like you said, and fake or too wild for me. Now, I think it is difficult to but i don't prefer male friends. If a guy wanted to be my friend i would be ok with it as long as i wasn't attracted to him lol if so then no. I think a friendship has to have chemistry like any other bond.
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    Same here.
    I view women as my sistas, so I don't have any problems with having them as friends...except for the ones that are stuck on drama. I don't mind having men as friends either (I think its healthy),but that has never worked out,since they changed their minds.
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  5. MsInterpret Well-Known Member

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    Also, I think some women tend to think I'm a b----h at first. A lot of my girl friends said that at first I thought you were such a "B"...So sometimes women do find it hard to be my friend also....I acknowledge I can be difficult. :p