Very true. So are you saying that all marriages are doomed fo fail? Since unconditional love doesn't exist and all...it would be impossible for any marriage to last in your world :uhoh: - well only under the perfect conditions I suppose if marriage = love and marriage is (supposed to be) forever, then in your equation unconditional love has to exist. otherwise in your world we would all be divorced or single how can something last forever (until death) if it has conditions associated with its continuance? change is the only constant and when you sign up for marriage, you don't know the future or how that person may act/change.