Black Relationships : How would you feel if you was asked to get tested?

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    MsInterpret PREMIUM MEMBER

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    How would you feel if someone you were dating asked you to get tested for an STD? Would you be offended? Would you be down to get tested?
    MsInterpret, Feb 23, 2011
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    Nah, sis.

    I have a rule that I ask all new partners to show me somekind of certificate or receipt that they are diseasefree - so I would be DELIGHTED if a Sister showed me that kind of responsibility and asked the same.

    Seriously, who has time to get an STD? It's scary fam (I might be saying that because I never had one, but still...) :( Also, what if you give it to your kids/next partner someday? And it is mad disgraceful to have to sit down every potential sex-partner before you penetrate and explain that 'uuuhh... I got this thing'. GAH-ROSE. (gross lol).

    A relation I know hooked up with a white man (boo!), fell head over heels (he's so nice to me pffft) and you know what happened?

    She got a variety of something called HPV (human papilomma fam). It's like genital warts, and it was CHRONIC. It took me like 10 minutes to digest her problem: it will NEVER go away and ALWAYS resurface no matter what kind of medicine she got. Oh shiiiiii :confused:

    This could happen regardless of what complexion your partner is. Imagine meeting a nice person, intelligent and sensitive and all that - and then you decide to just 'go for it' one of the nights you both agree to sleep together. Then BANG, you got burned and contracted a nasty germ that makes you smell, itch or what-have-you :'(

    Dang... all that for prematurely trusting your new bedmate. I had a child by not planning ahead and trusting a Sister, but that was an untimely BLESSING that I will always be happy to have in my life. Can one say the same when one gets a lifelong STD?

    Heh, I wish a Sister would get mad at me for asking. Let her go and sleep with someone else then.

    One,

    - Ikoro

    ps.: And admittedly, I am a tad irresponsible and prefer my intimacy raw - so my partners and I must operate on a strict trust. Am not taking chances when it comes to the people I love.
    Ikoro, Feb 23, 2011
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    No problem because I would expect the same.
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    I would say, we should both get tested

    Unless you were telling me I needed to be tested because you tested positive

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    Not at all.....I got my papers...He BETTAH have his!
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