they got strippers in Alabama?
ya'll act like it's a race or somthing, LOL
Finnish last or leading the pack it's not the issue. The real issue is are you willing to allow a woman to use your kindness and treat you in a negative manner. Life is a place of open and locked doors but rember that does not mean you have to be a welcome matt or a Doornob. All people show their true colors in time so just take your time when you meet a woman, Get to know her before you spend your whole paycheck or even allow her into your home. If you cn't take her home to momma then why even take her home?
just somthing to think about player!
Yes, we have strippers and strip clubs. I've been to a couple but it didn't do much for me. I'm just not into casual sex with women I don't have an interest in. This might sound odd, but I respect my body and a woman's body, even if she doesn't respect it. Obviously these ways of mine will continue to keep me alone, but it appears I have two choices in life: just "get laid" or forget about the whole thing.
Anyway, thanks. Maybe I'll try a local jazz club. I've heard about one in particular so maybe I'll make myself go to one of them.
For whatever it's worth, I think that some men are "afraid" of women and use excuses that women don't find them attractive to compensate for their fears. Some men are afraid of being rejected, they may lack confidence, they might be comparing themselves to how they see men portrayed by the media and feel that they don't measure up. There are a number of reasons why some men might feel insecure around women, and are too scared to admit it in public.
The topic of this thread is a question do nice guys finish last. My answer to that is no. Nice guys (whatever that translates into), handsome guys, not so handsome guys, bad guys...there are men in every category that will for one reason or another find themselves alone and without a partner at some point. Does it mean that something is wrong with them? Of couse not, but it does if you think that way about yourself.
Just be yourself, relax, enjoy life, don't obsess about women and eventually someone worthy of your time and attention will come to you.
AMEN TO THAT!!!