Why don't we stop doing what the rest of the world have been doing throughout our existance.... clumping all or most bm or bw in the same bunch/group. If one person takes a stance on a subject....let the response be toward him/her only. Pounce on him/her ...not the rest of our race. When will WE learn to stop talking about it (all things) and just be about it. One person can make a difference. Its ok to vent and air it out. But also make the decisions out loud (so we can be held accountable) to do our part to make the situation better! I, butterfly#1... pledge to do my best to make Destee.com, not only the oldest Black owned site on the net... but, also the best site on the net for all things BLACK! POWER TO OUR PEOPLE!!! ps....anyone in our community that sees me doing otherwise...call me out! I know we already have measures in place if I get too far out of line..but before I get there....pull my shirt tail.