Heya Lovn' People should date who they want. If you want whatever you want...knock yourself out.Wow, how liberal. And to the posted that said "men should wear that rubber" yes he should (for his own safety as well) but who has more birth control options? One should take responsibility for your own actions. Reminds me of Larry Elder commentary.
This is a fascinating topic i didnt read through it all but got a good half way, i must give the perspective of a black person living in Europe (part of my family live in america, and the other in europe). i think we are talking about shortage on many fronts there is the natural biological shortage which affects all races, there is the 'felt' shortage (effective relationship shortage), this is brought on by both unavailablility and unsuitability factors. even in the black community in England where i live, there is a a 'felt' shortage of black males brough on by everything from untimely deaths and interracial dating, so much so, there is now talk along the lines of Polygamy for black women. i have written a book about interracial, relatioshipships (focussed on the helping black women round a number of issues raised here and more). << web site link removed by Destee >> i also wrote this letter to a black newspaper in response to some people advocating polygamy...................... Is Polygamy the Solution to the Male Shortage for Black Women? In response to the raging debate about polygamy in theNew Nation newspaper, i wrote this response. (Published in New Nation Newspaper 12th June 06) I must say that it fascinates me that in this day andage, we continue to see relationships for black women, as something they can/must only do with black men, hence, our need for all sorts of desperate strategiesto 'force fit' a larger pool of women, to a smallerpool of men. While I was not too surprised that some men would wholly advocate polygamy (it is the logical position of men as it serves their 'biological'interest to have a surplus of women), I was disappointed but not really amazed, that a woman would advocate polygamy, calling it's prescription courageous! Women in general are well known for championing agendas that do them the most harm! Sad but true. Unfortunately, it is only when women put theirfoot down against any form of 'devaluation' that others take note. Writing a book about interracial relationships, opened my eyes to the uncomfortable fact that a significant portion of our men would rather us endure .......................... you can see the rest of this letter on << web site link removed by Destee >> i think its time that black women became courageous in looking honestly at this issue because what i often find is there is a lot of ' head burying in sand' or ' ignore it it will go away' kind of thing going on with women even when things are getting worse. we might as well confront the issue unflinchingly to get to the solution!
Excuse me James, I'll make sure i put in the little details. I never would have thought anyone would consider that as an option however we do live in a world as such. Unfortunate but true. To clarify, no, not underage girls. I was making reference to race.