I fit the category of both and I seem to not fit either category when it comes to one of the subjects. Uh... nope. Not I.
Uh...yes, you do. You have just conceded that you do agree with parts of the differentiation between a "male" and a "man" given by the author because, in some areas, you, admittedly, "fit the category of both." Again, admittedly, there was only ONE "subject" you did not seem to fit "either" category.
Ironically this subject thread reflects my contrast between the two before this thread got started... After having said and written etc. that: To me? One is born male (gender/biology)... One who chooses to accept the responsibility the role usually implies becomes a (real/true) man...