Chuck you seem to be a nice opinionated guy...Straight forward..Honest and those are great attributes. Folks may take offence but that's on their interpretation fault. I know you have let us know how you have participated in our uplifting and speaking on new ways. Folks write me about other posters(they never mention names) which seems petty! They cant do nothing to me . I'm 39. Thanks for the messages Bru!
I'll try to get my mind around your advice...Also do consider how some of what you shared with me has some of those other parties coming across yet again: They need to GREW UP...Some aren't even considering how they come across to THEIR children...A few even had 'em young and they are ADULTS too! SMH...
I guess I don't take compliments well...Though yours are both appreciated and quite welcomed...No...Most of the posters aren't kids anymore, and need to quit acting like they are...FYI...
I. e., things don't always get replied to, via the order they were said/sent/etc. Always a crap shoot, when I send out comments etc. this way...But, no, I'm hardly the exclusive or sole reason folks don't use the 'chat' function much anymore...Never can guess whose (fraaile) ego coudn't take anything other than, 'yeah, you're right, again!' FYI...
These posters air real gripes: I give 'em props for that...Though this is the beginning of the process it will take to actually change things...I didn't come here expecting them to have 'all of the answers' either...Just be more (for real) about the issues/problems/etc. FYI...
Well people are sensitive. Especially when they feel like they know everything and their minds are not large enough to see the other end of the spectrum. Have to deal with people accordingly. Selfishly that's why I do Me and hope it rubs off if so be it!
I admit that I do and did expect better than that of certain parties...My dear acquaintance needs a proof reader and/or to learn means/ways/etc. to shorten the list of their proposed solutions to our peoples issues/problems/etc. I did consider us allies (not rivals)...FYI...
One also has to keep in mind the audience for their proposals...I. e., can't and won't overwhelm people with ideas and viewpoints that go over their heads...All I'm saying/writing/etc. too...
By the way: 05/27/51...So where do I take things from here? Haven't gotten my mind around that yet! SMH...
we were talking about people in general. Don't want you to take this personally atall! Just was speaking on how I roll! We are allies, I don't do rivals:) That is a useless fight! Unless im wanting to learn, propose or see their side. Not just to chat!
I guess just keep hope alive that we'll prove some points etc.
Last time around: I kinda sorta believe you didn't get my drift or point ...Direct and to the ;point: I have to make a clear distinction, i. e. , between allies and friends...So, I base my politics etc. on who my friends are, whereas you will find some posters did and do...Also some of my 'critics' need to practice what they preach...FYI...
To me, one of the options we have, as regardes the message boards , etc., is as a clearinghouse for new approaches and new ideas, which I need not always agree with, though I respect the right of the other parties to post them as a given...FYI...
Jul 5, 2012
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