Jails / Prisons : Black Men and Prison - Fleece Johnson - Can a Homosexual be Made?

And this is exactly what my "play" brother told me And I know he is as straight as an arrow. What are you going to do when you got 8 years or more?
For a brother who is not a gay or perverted and who has character and intergrity, his choices are simple.


Celibacy doesn't kill you know:fyi:I think it makes for a stronger person and teachers you more about self control
Celibacy, which I would hope would be my choice.


...i don't get turned on by the site of a naked (fe)male body because i have the same parts.:10500:

If weakness overcomes a brother, he can always do what Micheal Jackson used to say and Just "Beat it".


The "Booty Warrior" said "I LIKE BOOTY" and "....AS MUCH AS I LIKE BOOTY...". IMO, it takes an arousal to get an erection. It takes an erection to penetrate a "BOOTY". It takes a gay person or a PERVERT to get an erection at the sight of a MAN's "BOOTY" A man can have an erection and loose it at the sight of something that is a turn-off.

The only exception to this is the power thing...I suppose a man could rape a man as a demonstration of his power or something. I GUESS power can provide the erection that in a NORMAL man would require arousal.

In that case, that MAN is an ANIMAL.
 
Rape is not about sex. It's about power, domination and subjugation.

You've heard that for the rape of females, the rape of males is no different.

The only difference is that sexual assault of females, even by another female - does not usually cause women to question their sexuality the same way it does for men. A man's manhood and masculinity is often wrapped up in his heterosexuality, which is a direct result of patriarchy and gender hierarchy. If you want to emasculate and devalue a man (especially a black man), there is no better and more fearful way to do than to then turn him into 2nd class citizen...a woman. How do you turn a man into a woman? You penetrate him in the same way you figure most women are penetrated. That is why a man who been sexually penetrated is most often referred to in 'feminine' terms such as those mentioned in this thread.

Prison rape is not about sex, sexuality, or being horny; so celibacy or masturbation will not 'cure' it.

what is different about the abuse of {males} especially {males} abused by men is that it often precipitates crises about sexual orientation and gender identity. This is related to shameful feelings of being less manly because they were victimized; and if the abuser was a male, then they fear it has affected, will affect or is an indication of their sexual orientation. {Females} who are abused by women do not automatically fear that they are Gay, but with {males} it is different. It has to do with a culture of male homophobia and what it means to be Masculine, which has created a lot of anxiety and fear in boys over the prospect of being Gay.

Masculinity is an ideal for men. Masculinity in our culture is recognized as heterosexual. Masculine men are not victims, they are aggressors. They cannot be penetrated; they penetrate. They do not have sex with other men. They have sex with women and they procreate. Masculinity is a key part of male gender identity - the public expression of sexual orientation. So once a {male} has been victimized, penetrated and had sex with another man, with or without their consent, their masculinity is compromised and therefore their sexual orientation is called into question. There is such profound shame attached to this notion for most boys that men with sexual abuse histories often have severe problems relating intimately to both men and women.


http://www.wellness.com/blogs/rweisberg/3014/male-sexual-abuse-of-boys/r111ni-weisberg-ross-lmft
 
Celibacy doesn't kill you know:fyi:I think it makes for a stronger person and teachers you more about self control...i don't get turned on by the site of a naked female body because i have the same parts.:10500:

I don't want to repeat/answer your question because i don't do the self hexing thingy...

Yeah,I get your point but every gay in jail don't always look all the way manly and who know what people will do when in dire straits.

Peace!
 
For a brother who is not a gay or perverted and who has character and intergrity, his choices are simple.

Yes and no. Men and women do many things in the dark because they feel no one has to or will know. A man in jail may op for oral sex but not the other,just since he gets satisfaction. And perversion is subjective.


Peace!
 
Prison rape is not about sex, sexuality, or being horny; so celibacy or masturbation will not 'cure' it.

The man said "I LIKE BOOTY" and "....AS MUCH AS I LIKE BOOTY...". Do you not take him at his word???

He said it so many times about how getting BOOTY was more important to him than food. SO, rather than take it from the horses mouth, you seem to apply your own logic to it.
 

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