I'm curious on some of the opinions of the fellas on this topic???

Here's the question... If your Girlfriend/Wife cheated on you would you give her a second chance?

If no why? if yes why?

If you cheated on your Wife/Girlfriend would you expect her to give you a second chance?

If no why? if yes why?

well now !!!!
hell no she cheat she's out coz i give my all to the relationship
well no i think if i seek someone else then it's ova between us

i can't work out whats gone ....so hell no ....one tyme dat's it!

i agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee with rich...
by the way the damage is already done by doning that.....
cause you break the bond ............................
though i spiritual way they say that some forgive
be me i could not live...again with these thougts in my mind with that same some one seeing him or her doing it with another person

Well put byRich and Libertylaida, once the bond is broken it will never be the same. Most likely if u did it once you will do it again.

Double standards. If a woman cheats, the man is GONE. Many women give a man a second chance...not sure why though.

One hundred times NO. That is a serious act of betrayal and I could never see myself forgiving her. I'm pretty sure I would actually loathe her at that point, so a second chance would be impossible.

I usually give people second chances EXCEPT when it comes to cheating. If I do it to someone else, I definitely don't expect them to take me back...although, I wouldn't mess around on someone I care about.

so tru i will never cheat or set myself up for betrayal to a love
of my heart i pose feelings for i will never accept a cheater back
because it will happen again ........she really didn't love me if she
have to cheat and do acts of such to a person heart.
she a done deal so stay with him i'm gone

no variety what so ever, huh?