Everybody has there own little special thing they do that pleases their mate. Wether it be nibbling his/her neck. oral sex, anal, Etc. But does all this really matter if there is no romancing in the picture. Well some may consider the previous romance, but I have my own special definition. Now webster states the meaning of romance in many different ways, but what is your opinion, what is romance.

My definition. Deep feelings you feel for a person, when you feel drawn to them by not only sexual forces, but also spiritual forces. there is a differnce between sex and romance. Anyone can have sex-------birds have sex, but that dosen't mean a bird is being romantic. what about the way you feel while you are having sex. Do you feel like it's a booty call, or making love, and how do you know when you are making love?. Think on it for a while, and shout me a holla.

None other than the deepest of them all
DEEPSISTASOUL.


:love:

indeed many way to spell such out here ......love is composed
in the fashion of beauty from within ya heart it captures a vibe
of romance which u feel deep into ya soul u will know !
sex is a act of lust from da burning feeling u hold
but true love is da emotional feeling and da wits of ya soul
makes up da caress of beings , Romance is when ya mate
sho compassionate motions and sweet caressing with a bit
of humor / also sho da love side of self ....now we have three
sides to this ..
one ------F*@K!^ is a cheap act one pose as the lady of da night
two-------sex is a act of lust or what we call a booty call
three-----love is a act of two mate entewined in da grace of
compassionate bliss from da feels felt within it carries the vibe
thats sexually /spiritually love is wonderful it makes u sing da
sweetest love song under da candle lite it brings warmth into
a soul and caress ya emotional feels ....yes there r many acts
of such but the things is where do we stand when it comes to
this , well da answers r found within self
Romancing is a act of two 2gether on da same wave wit little
cute thing like a sweet kiss or a nipple of da ear even that
dance as slow jams play sometime romancing is da quiet night
at home together alone by da fire place or playin the childest
games and filling da room wit laughter /sharing/caring/holding
hands under da moonlite see when we speak of such many
things come to mind sex / love/ or f*@K!^ all have a place of
it's own but again where do one stand in such me as a pure
lover man i set sail and reside under the fact of love wit feelins
emotional grace thats blissful never shell i lust for one night of
heated passion .............that's how i see it !!!!
WHERE DO SELF FIT IN ??????

Bravo my brother, bravo. I need some ice right now, because you told it like it is. never holding your tounge, a man of passion, fire and sincerity wrapped in one. You are truly gifted my brotha, therefore I say keep up the good work.

the deepest of them all
DEEPSISTASOUL

I thanketh thee openly and ever so sweetly
forth i am who i am whom ever step into my
kingdom shell & will be loved ......may da blessing keep u

*giggling*

anyways....

I would say romance is anything that incites the senses. Sort of refers to the term "fanning the flames".

Keep in mind that romance is relative, but it NEVER invades the intellect, no matter the task.

indeed Kebah......i so agree

deep sista soul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! good question....
i will come back to respond ......
my time is up here.......
from where i write
but thank god someone is thinking about this...and discuss
blessya ...

Romance is when I have had a long, tiring week and he comes over to detail my car. Romance is when I cook his favorite meal just like he likes it. Romance is sitting on the deck, enjoying our time together.

Romance is leaving a bag of red hots or fireballs for him to find later. Romance is watering my many plants while I am away on a business trip. Romance is being in a room full of people and sensing what each other is thinking.

Romance is putting a new antennae on my car after I have broken it off for the third time. Romance is cutting his hair when he couldn't get to the barber shop.

I find romance in many things most people take for granted.

aww regina ..beautifull said...
but rich aww the way you decribed....the F ..the sex and the love
well said ...brotha...
it was beautifuul..how you decribed Romance..
blees ya

i mean bless ya...
lol bless ya rich

yes romance is a two way street it pose great beauty and
compassionate wayz .
Romance also bring forth the things ya heart so desire
in a soulmate
Romance can be displayed in fashions unknown coz true love
has that kinda impact
Romance is a simple love songs under candle lite , it pose the greatest
affection to guide directional bliss
Romance is a huge box mixed up with many coz it can be of
just a single red rose or warm whispers at night and gentle
touchies romantic moments shared ......
romance is in the eyes of the yes beholder.........true Romance

peace and blessings be wit u all. I say and think romance is the conversations and suttle but significgant connections leadind up to the commitment, the patience involved with the desire, the want being subordinated to the need, and spark in the heart seen through the eye, that's romance.

Jusme beautifully stated I think you are right that is the beginnings of romance.......the commitment and reinforcement of those sentiments and actions is a continuation and further development of romance which lead to love.

peace to you

Romance is the acts that one does in order to touch their partner in the warm, soft, pure, place that is the heart.

It is true that it is in the eyes of the beholder. But these actions come from an unselfish spirit and a truthful soul. Something as simple as a kiss to calm the nerves or as complex as a scavenger hunt for all of his/her favorite things.

The common thread will be a desire to make your partner feel loved.

Romance is the human mating ritual. :love:

Romance is acting on the emotion you feel for another. It's the inspiration that drives you to call just to say nothing. It can be the purely mundane such as snuggling as he watches the Superbowl and you read the latest Bernice McFadden novel or the extravagant weekend getaway to the mountains or the beach.
Romance is the heart's language..............................

Scorp-