I wrote this for one of my sisters because her situation puzzled me. I usually can say something but I didn't know what to tell her when she asked me what she should do.

Lately she's been
Unable to see her reflection in his eyes
Part of her self to this action does despise
But it's the truth
He loves her deep
Like
Valleys in the Earth's Crater
But clouds have covered the reflective pools in his optics
So she can't see her soul mate
Can't see why they are together other than
The fact that they have this
Comfort Zone
That she loves him like an old poem
That she wrote
And that he loves her more than any man has ever loved her before
Doesn't she have a responsibility to love, to his love, therefore
To never break nor drop the heart he gave to her
To keep forever?
She's not falsifying her feelings
It's just in solitude when doubt seems to storm
Yet time alone she feels she needs
And craves at times
So she is stuck
And this is where she exists
Today
In Confusion...

Any advice for her?

she need to find herself of self to know
wha she wants in life out of a man
and know of love to love by heart
i agree wit Kem coz he said da magic wordz
she should know by now less it's a problem
wit her knowing whom and what to love
she can't see self in him coz she blanked his
emotional mind out ......i wish her luck....:confused:

One of the most important aspects
of a relationship is communication.
A person should feel comfortable
conveying their feelings, if not,
that is a issue within itself.
If she is unhappy, for whatever reason
she should voice her feelings.
What she receives from the talk
should make whatever decision
she needs to choose plausible.


Epiphany :heart:

is KEY!!! She should be honest about her feelings and not lead the man on. That would not be fair to him or her.

did she listen to da drum beat
or did she stay to his play ?????

without togetherness their is no us ...

she heard the drums beatin' y'all....glad to say. she finally broke down and talked to him about what she was going through...i did copy this and email all your responses to her. she listened which is cool. she started realizing that he loved her enough to want to always work things out and that began to loosen the blockage that ceased the flow of love within her.

thanks y'all for your words of truth. communication is key.

oh and they are back on track working thangs out together like they ought to.

1 L O V E

peace and blessings unto you...
always,
anita j.